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Once I was accompanied with traders/shopkeepers in my city and a poor man came and begged for money saying he is not a beggar but he doesn’t have money to feed his children and if someone could help him buy food for his family and he will repay when he has the money. Mostly people give Dua and ask them to leave but one of the trader used very harsh language to him saying these are tactics used by you people and go away. I didn’t like the way he spoke but I stayed quiet as I was probably the youngest among them… after 5 minutes I went to find him on my bike as my guess was that he must be on the same road and upon finding him… I said because you are not a beggar as you claimed… I am giving you 1000 rupees which I hope you will return when you have the money… you know where I was sitting so come and give it back to me when you have it… he cried so much after receiving the money that it pierced my heart…
After a month or so… he came back and returned 1000 rupee… moral of the story is… sometime people are truly in need and we should not discard them assuming beggars tactics
I was living in Hong Kong in early 90s.
Engaged in Guangzhou and paid very well but apartment and wife in Hongkong that I come back for weekends as Guangzhou in early 90 was not an attractive place to live in.
In winter of 92, I was walking with my wife back to our apartment late at night, I saw an elderly lady wearing thin dress and with a collection of drink cans she was gathering.
It was very chilly that night .
I thought I give her something to cheer her up. I took out a HK$500 note. A good road side meal will cost HK$20 then.
I gave her that and spoke to her in Cantonese a little something for you.
She looked at what I gave her in surprise that turned into shock and revulsion.
She shouted she was not a beggar and needed nothing from anyone and dropped that note on the floor and walked quickly away with her bag of drink cans.