But a debriefing is not rubber-necking. Very different.
That isn't quite what I meant anyway. Attraction, something to discus, something to watch - from near or far - but not something that is tragic for anyone other then those with an attachment to the victim.
I look at the recent police shootings in the US as an example. It's tragic for the victim and their immediate contacts, but for those removed from the incident itself it's a conversation, a case study, something to watch with interest and hopefully something that'll spurn action to lessen the future incidents. But tragic? Not generally for the greater population who are too far removed from the incident.
I recovered several victims during my time in the Air Force... I found it best to just focus on my work and not let emotions weigh on me. In a way I became desensitize, and that's more or less a good thing for a soldier. It was a tragedy for the victims family and friends. But for me, it was just another day at work.
The only time I can say I've been effected by the death of someone was during the 2011 Utoya Massacre where not only was I part of the response and hazard team sent to cleanup, but I actually knew one of the victims. Mass events like this, more then a single death, weigh heavily on the individual and greater population.
I still have pictures I took during our response that I kept with me up until my retirement from active service, just as a reminder of the horrors of that day. There's nothing quite as chilling as battlefield wounds. I'm no stranger to the dead, I've been unfortunate enough to have held my fair share of the drowned or frozen, but that day scars me more then any other for its sheer size.
Your perspective likely differs from mine, I respect our divergent views, but my experience has me disagreeing with Mr. Stalin.