I find that claim by Kerry to be disingenuous, as was Obama's that the US is not being 'callous about the loss of life'. The US is being callous about the loss of Pakistani life, because we haven't heard a peep about investigating and punishing the driver of the vehicle that killed an innocent bystander, and even Kerry's offer to investigate Davis came after weeks of tensions, threats and bullying from the US.
Were the US really not being 'callous' about the loss of life, the first statements from the US would have been statements offering regret/apologies for the three dead, promises of investigations into the incidents, and then stating that they believed that Davis had diplomatic immunity and should be handed over to US authorities for investigation into the incident.
Instead, US statements and the US attitude in the days and weeks after the incident made clear that the US is callous about the loss of Pakistani life at the hands of gun toting (illegally) American officials running around Pakistan, and also exactly how the US views Pakistan - a country that it can threaten, insult and bully into complying with its demands.
You make some good points Sir.
I agree with you that the matter should, and could, have been dealt with with much greater sensitivity and compassion from both governments, specially with regards to the families, and in particular, the poor young lady who chose to commit suicide. That alone speaks volumes as to how badly the situation was handled. Your criticism in this matter is absilutely justified.
The outrage being shown is quite justified too, but that comes from the bruised dignity of a proud people. I know, I was once one of them, and I can perfectly identify with them still.
However, the sad but painful truth is that the dignity of the nation has been long sold down the river over decades. So when you write " a
country that it can threaten, insult and bully ", what you really should say is " a
governance apparatus that it can threaten, insult and bully ". I am truly sad to say that the reason for this perceived behavior of the US government is the Pakistani elite, who are beholden lock, stock, and barrel (including illegal foreign accounts, offshore properties, green cards for children and siblings etc. etc.) to their masters.
What you are complaining of is merely the master coming to collect his dues. Nothing more.
That is why I have said all along, the time to sort is all out is
after this matter has been resolved according to the
present rules of the game. We all need to go home, regroup, and then work hard over decades so that when the next match comes, as it inevitably will, the rules can be different.
We do have that potential, but it is up to us to realise it.