What you essentially are saying is that RAW should keep up its terrorist activities in Pakistan and keep destabilizing it. And you are banking on the assumption that while Pakistan stay destabilized, indian economy will flourish.
Well this policy might have worked for few years and might work for 1-2 more years to come, but do you really think after Pakistan has successfully defeated indian sponsored terrorism ( and defeat it will), you will just come to Pakistan and say, "hey look buddy, now lets be friends"?
This is not how it works.
Every action will call for reaction, at some stage your RAW is going to cross some very deep hard red line, which it has almost crossed when RAW sponsored TTP attacked Peshawar school.
Do you think some of the hardcore generals in Pakistan will just let that happen when all of their kids have died in RAW sponsored terrorist attack and do nothing? All it will take is a little spark and the whole region is going to flare up.
I say India is walking on a very very thin ice here by allowing RAW carrying on terrorist activities in Pakistan.
I know you will call it blame game or going to deny it, but you can not have a serious dialog as long as you do not address the real problem which at the moment is RAW sponsored terrorism in Pakistan.
PS. Both India and Pakistan have problems with arming up. If you arm up, Pakistan does need to maintain the minimum deterrence to keep your adventurous extremists in check. So lets just be realistic about it and do not complain when Pakistan procures some hardware next time.
I never accepted your premise that RAW does anything to destabilize Pak. It has always been my contention that the snakes you have created are doing a fine job of it.
Pakistani destabilization has little to do with Indian economic growth. We have slowed down and picked up again while you are unstable.
I see no reason to presume your security forces being either capable or incapable of dealing with your internal problems. That's your problem. Moreover, I do not believe would concern India for a decade or two.
You can blame whomever you wish to, that matters little. Your establishment knows. If they do attack India, we'll retaliate in various ways depending on the scale, timing, target etc of the attack.
The region is not going to flare up, worst case would be a limited war, little more. Your forces are in no position for a war and India has no interest. Besides, other powers are always going to get in in some form. Your attami hatiyaar are of no concern here.
Modi gave you an offering for a serious dialog, you threw it away in favor of talking to separatists. Now go negotiate peace with them.
India has no problems arming up, actually we have just seriously begun, particularly in terms of force projection, the navy. However, your country is hardly the target for that.
The point was that India is not going to stop arming, peace with Pak or not. Consequently, nether is Pak due to your hopeless pursuit of parity. Another reason why there is little chance for peace.
Procure away to your hearth's content, matters little. If you wish to compete with India as we grow in arms, you are welcome to try.
As I have repeated, I have little interest in whom you blame for your woes. Point is peace is unlikely, a war is just as unlikely.