So technically, you do admit that Israelis get killed and only retaliate with such ferocity so that they are not attacked again? That's what the whole issue is about isn't it? Disproportionate Response strategy. The solution to such a warfare is simple; let the Israelis live in peace, and they don't need to ever respond so fiercely.
No one intentionally targets women and children. They are always the unwilling victims caught in crossfire in any war. It is rather unfortunate and sad but that is the reality of most wars that rage on this planet anywhere whether it is Asia, Middle East, Europe or Africa. If the militant bodies use these women and children as their cannon fodder, it is not Israel's fault but rather these agencies' fault who disrespect the value of their fairer sex and the young children to up their political goals.
When Hamas' and Hizbulla rockets target Israeli women and kids, do the Israelis scream and howl about how their women and kids are targeted? NO. They take concrete steps to get them out of the harm's way and secure them enough so that fight can resume on an even-ground of trained combatants. I don't see what is stopping these agencies from moving their non-combatants out of a warzone if they are so concerned indeed rather than getting them all killed in crossfire and then claiming how 'evil' Israelis are.