First of all, keep aside the notion that every Indian is here to bash Pakistan at large. This is neither the aim of forum nor the aim of every member here. Secondly its no harm in looking back and checking where things gone wrong, there might be 1000s of things that was done right but few wrong things are the one that always help to learn.
well i never said that ALL members have this aim, i do personally know a few who are here to learn, to educate others and to learn themselves. They always contribute in a positive manner instead of posting one liners like ... you know which one!
I always appreciate such posts and always happy to be told what mistake i made and how can i correct that.
Biggest learning for Pakistan from the Agfan war is that proxy war never helps in solving problem, it only makes you burn your hands. Secondly in the fight of two superpowers, the ground and supporter are the biggest loosers. Here ground was Afganistan and supporter were likes of Pakistan.
Raising a proxy to fight against a powerful enemy can only prolong the war, but would not bring solution. Rather it would always create fractions of powers no mater who wins. And these fractions of power will never be in rest unless there is some very powerfull reason bring them together.
NO this is actually the third topic you have moved to in the last three posts. The question remains, Afghan took refuge in Pakistan because Pakistan asked Russia to invade? if not then when they were there and killing the afghans what were we supposed to do? AND as i mentioned, it was not only Pakistan, the hazara/Shia community moved to Iran.
As for the argument that we could have acted differently to gain more and lose lesser from that war, NO DOUBT ABOUT THAT, we could have. But saying that it was Pakistan that made Afghans take refuge in Pakistan or forced them to get into a position to take refuge anywhere is absurd to say the least. The taraki issue you pointed to have a long complex background that i will AGAIN stress you may read if you are interested in the topic. Try "The Great Gamble: Soviet ear in Afghanistan by former NPR Moscow correspondent Gregory Feifer" that will clear a lot of doubts, IF YOU WANT TO CLEAR THEM.
What pakistan could have done.
1. Form a coalition and oppose it in UN and push US and Europe to control Russia instead of being an agent of USA and OIC and raising arms conflict.
2. Setup refugee camps at border or inside Afghanistan under UN Charter, marked it as restricted access area under UN Control.
3. Work and Enforce that UN works towards rehabilitation of refugees under camps to there native land.
4. Engage Taraki in talks to find ambical solution, if USA can do that during cuban crises, same could have been achieved very easily in Afgan crises.
5. Should have taken it as Afgan war and not a war against Muslims at large.
Yes, i agree what you have said. These things would have worked better for us. However, don't you think that it is much easier to write/advise all this NOW when we have seen the outcome of the other choices? If you put yourself in boots of men making decision at that time and ignore what you now know as a fact as it have actually happened, you will find that the decisions, made on that time were not wrong to those men. I can confidently say that if those same men are put into that same time again they will make the same decisions, however if those same men are to make decision today, knowing what actually happened in 80s and afterwards, those same people will make totally different decisions.
Just as an example, we had lost a war to our arch rival India, at that time the idea would have been to keep the closest ally of India, the Russians as far away from our western borders as possible and it would have been even better if in doing so we could have please the other super power of that time, the US into supporting us. It is only now that we know how it all turned out, at that time, that would have sounded pretty awesome deal.
AND in the end, i will like to quote
Its always helpful to learn, if you remove the color glasses and read the things in real colors, whether you like it or not its always helps in understand cause and effect and how we can manage it.
It is easier to say what you have suggested (that is correct to a large extent) now when the outcome is known than it would have been to do at that time.