Drone attacks have been ongoing. Nothing new. Anyone expecting them to stop upon him taking up office is not living in reality.
Special Envoy to Pakistan and Afghanistan is actually a good thing for Pakistan. It means that we work with someone fairly closely and can clearly explain to the envoy what our security, geo-political considerations are. This means that Obama gets a more accurate analysis of what we are trying to do instead of someone sitting in DC, all aloof from Pakistan making the calls on Pakistan policy. Remember talking is always good. The more we talk, the more we tell them about the genesis of the militancy problem and its relation to the Kashmir issue, the more objective a US response we will see.
Performance based aid is just what is being talked about. There is a precedence in place that it does not work. However Americans are not the only ones with leverage on this issue. Pakistan can and will respond appropriately if conditionalities are placed. What all that is going on in Kyrgyzstan with the base closure, Pakistan's importance in the war in Afghanistan is bound to increase. So placing measures such as the old pressler amendment (at the behest of the Indian lobby) will be counter-productive for the US interests.
All in all, I say things are ok if one looks at them pragmatically.
I see a desperate attempt to see a silver lining where none exists.
pakistan had seriously hoped to stall drone attacks once regime changed in US, that was apparent with all the noise made by pak immediately after obama took over office. but it was clear that obama could see through your tactics.
then the special envoy, my dear, in not there to listen to you, he is there to dictate to you. and must say, he has quite a reputation of arm-twisting. so good luck with explaining to him your view. btw, k-word is out of his jurisdiction.
then as for pakistan's importance, you might be right. but there are active attempts to fing an alternative. iran is being courted and also russia. there might be some tantrums thrown like kyrgyzstan to gain some perks, but that doesnt seem like a big glitch. so, there are active attempts to decrease your 'importance'.
giving aid(military/non-military) without strings attached was more counter productive to US, as discovered by bush. so, obama's method is bound to be more successful.