I totally agree with you we should move on but just for 1 min put yourself in our place and think about '71 just for 1 min and than honestly tell me would you have forgiven us? would you forget it so easily? it took 1000 years for Europeans to make a union what you did in '71 is really hard for some of us to forget and forgive it's not easy to just "move on".
Edit though i agree with pakloves post if we can solve Kashmir issue than maybe we will be able to move forward.
I appreciate your POV.
The only example I can give is the Indian one . We got the drubbing of our lives in 1962 ( it turned out be a blessing in disguise as later events showed) , we have lost Aksai Chin & the areas occupied by your nation which belonged to Hari Singh . Now we have two options , either with lament over it , keep whipping ourselves into a frenzy over what should have been ours or simply say F**k it and move on and progress with what we have.
Now, as far as EP/ BD is concerned , two can play a game. India did an Op Gibraltar in EP , the diff being that in EP Pak created an environment for it to succeed while in 65 Ayub //Bhutto mis read the sentiment of locals who got Pak infiltrators captured . I have read posts as old as four days old here where Pak posters admit that that part of land was not meant to be theirs & good riddance to it. Pak pushed away the Bengalis with both hands & now feel sorry for them having left.
Pak tried to create a Khalistan , had we Indians done what what Pak did to Bengalis there was no reason for us to feel sorry for the loss of Punjab. Since we never did it, we recovered the situation.
Sure, as you have mentioned, its not easy to forget & forgive but what options exist ? Our fighting creates jobs world wide while our people suffer.It may have taken 1000 years to make an EU but it took them & Japan 20 years to put the past behind & move on , we havent in 70.
Now, Kashmir. To me there is no solution other than converting the LC into an IB. If Punjab & Bengal can be divided so can J&K. The sooner we acccept this the faster we shall move on with the rest of our lives.
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@Oscar says a lot.