Liar

[Skies]

I do not know if you have ever came across any girl who always lies and think herself smart. And also they think that people do not understand when they lie but they are wrong. May be you have.

What I want to knowis how to fix such girls mentally, so that they feel they are going very very wrong and degrading their value and feel that everyone hates a pathological liar and can catch when they lie even people do not let them know.

Please suggest how to deal and fix such girls .

 

[Sheikh Rauf]

I do not know if you have ever came across any girl who always lies and think herself smart. And also they think that people do not understand when they lie but they are wrong. May be you have.

What I want to know (your opinion and suggestion) is how to fix such girls mentally, so that they feel they are going very very wrong and degrading their value and feel that everyone hates a pathological liar and can catch when they lie even people do not let them know.

Please suggest how to deal and fix such girls .

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fix yourself and leave her alone she will learn hard way.

 

[Skies]

fix yourself and leave her alone she will learn hard way.

You mean she will not be fixed until she suffers like Karma is a bitch?

Then may be you are right. People do not want to learn until they suffer.

 

[I.R.A]

Please suggest how to deal and fix such girls .

Are you seeking relationship advice for yourself? Or is it that every girl you deal with in your life is a liar?

The age group of person you are dealing with? Your relationship with her? Her profession? Her financial background?

Nobody lies for fun (or I may be wrong, there may be some exceptions), we tell lies when we fear or we seek reward.

 

[Pseudonym]

fix yourself and leave her alone she will learn hard way.

Listen to this guy. Best advice you're gonna get.

 

[Skies]

Are you seeking relationship advice for yourself? Or is it that every girl you deal with in your life is a liar?

The age group of person you are dealing with? Your relationship with her? Her profession? Her financial background?

Nobody lies for fun (or I may be wrong, there may be some exceptions), we tell lies when we fear or we seek reward.

No some girls are like that. I am dealing with a girl age of 17, student. A relative.

 

[Dawood Ibrahim]

No some girls are like that. I am dealing with a girl age of 17, student. A relative.

Do you love her

 

[Skies]

Do you love her

No........ a cousin and her family is suffering for her lying habit.......

I want to let her understand she is doing wrong and she is not smart that she thinks she is.

 

[I.R.A]

No some girls are like that. I am dealing with a girl age of 17, student. A relative.

She is most probably immature and emotional, won't understand the consequences unless she is shown repeatedly someone who has suffered because of her stupidity. Don't force any ideas on her, bring the change in her attitude slowly and gradually, try giving her some responsibility and decision making tasks (not big ones just simple day to day). Dealing with immature emotional people is not an easy task you have to have lots of patience.

 

[Skies]

She is most probably immature and emotional, won't understand the consequences unless she is shown repeatedly someone who has suffered because of her stupidity. Don't force any ideas on her, bring the change in her attitude slowly and gradually, try giving her some responsibility and decision making tasks (not big ones just simple day to day). Dealing with immature emotional people is not an easy task you have to have lots of patience.

Your suggestion seems very useful. Thank you.

 

[I.R.A]

Your suggestion seems very useful. Thank you.

No problem .......... anytime.

 

[Dawood Ibrahim]

No........ a cousin and her family is suffering for her lying habit.......

IMO you guys also start lying to her see what's her response coz i don't think she will learn until she taste her own medicine Jus saying

 

[Sheikh Rauf]

You mean she will not be fixed until she suffers like Karma is a bitch?

Then may be you are right. People do not want to learn until they suffer.

Yes. And by attaching to her you are damaging your personality as well.

 

[I.R.A]

Yes. And by attaching to her you are damaging your personality as well.

She is his cousin a family member, you cannot let a young one alone without guidance, everyone tells lies she is not unique, proper attention can guide her to mend her way of behaving.

 

[Sheikh Rauf]

She is his cousin a family member, you cannot let a young one alone without guidance, everyone tells lies she is not unique, proper attention can guide her to mend her way of behaving.

well all you can do is highlight the problem tell to the people who are responsible like parents. Discuss with her in front of parents and if she promise then keep an eye on her.
People who doesnt wanted to listen they wont no matter how hard you try. we are all responsible of our deeds we have to play our positive role and let it go.