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A Reddit chat provides insights on racism and sxism of Indian cricket crowds.
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She hates the racism of the Indian Premier League. "Slimeballs" routinely demand that she pose for photos with them. Most of all, she's a feminist. Those are among the revelations made by an American IPL cheerleader who participated on Wednesday in anAMA ‒ shorthand for "Ask Me Anything" ‒ on the Reddit social networking website.

While the woman remained anonymous for the public at large, she had apparently submitted picture proof to the moderators of the site to establish her identity, but didn't want it made public for fear of losing her job.

The online event attracted over 500 responses and she went on to answer a wide range of questions from food to travel and, of course, the highs and lows of her job.

This is how she described herself.
I'm from the U.S.A and so far I've been loving India. I might be a rare Westerner in that I love the chaos here. People are living, kids playing cricket in the streets, goats and cows wondering around, people selling fruits and veggies on corners, I love it. It beats the closed off living you'll find in major cities in the U.S. the U.K. or Australia.

I was a cheerleading for an All-Star team and for my high school for 7 years, but that was 8 years ago now so admittedly I'm a bit rusty. This is only my third week in IPL.

My love for dancing and experiencing new things and new cultures brought me here. I actually get payed very little.
HornySingh, who had organised the AMA, started with a direct question as to whether she could share any inside scoops. Her response:
"Oh my goodness, the costumes are the biggest drama. I liked our old ones but apparently the big boss's 13 year old daughter decided she wants to be a designer and designed our new outfits. We've been through 3 different cheer outfits now and I still hate the final outcome".
aar_640 asked: "What is the biggest thing you hate about your job?"
"I hate the racism. Why is my team made up of 99% white girls? Why do Indians feel it's ok to dress white girls up in skimpy outfits but they won't let their fellow Indian women do it? It's messed up."
aar_640 also asked how cheerleaders coped with abusive and cheap words hurled at them. Her response:
"for the most part I can't hear them. The music is loud enough and the accents are thick enough I'm mostly oblivious to the words. This doesn't mean I can't tell that there are some obvious slime-balls behind me. I try my best to ignore them. And I've made a personal rule for myself not to take pictures with fans unless they're women or children. I'm not keen on becoming someone's fap bate for the night.".
ek_ladki had a question on the working conditions in India, whether she thought she was being paid fairly and felt that she was treated with respect.
Conditions aren't the best. If I were back in the U.S. I'd be shocked at the state of our to!lets, changing rooms, and on occasions our hotel rooms.
Gtarumble followed that up by enquiring about the accommodation the cheerleaders were given.
The first two games they were more like 1 star hotels. Cockroaches, I saw a rat and rat droppings, it was pretty bad. But we quickly spoke up and realized our manager for that trip had been skimping us and pocketing the money he was saving on a cheaper hotel. Now they're more like 3 star. Perfectly comfortable but not over the top.
The manager has since been fired, she revealed. When asked about the difference between crowds in India versus other countries, she said:
"The men in the crowd in India are much more intrusive. But you'll find pigs wherever you go."
discr33t_enough asked about what annoys her the most during games. Her response:
"Gross men being vulgar".
pcmaniacxx asked: What is the funniest thing you ever saw a cricket fan doing in a stadium?
Honestly? I put a blank stare on for the most part when I'm facing the crowd. There's just so many nasty men making kissy faces and taking my picture that I tend to just block it all out. Often I'll lock eyes with some nice people that are smiling and those are the people I'll focus on for most of the game. So I haven't really seen many funny things. If someone genuinely made me laugh though, that would be a welcome thing.
vareen's question was on advice to kids wanting to take up cheerleading.
"I'd advise not to take up cheerleading as an only profession. If you want to be a cheerleader, study dance and work on getting jobs in dance. Use your resume to apply".
shiva_ram asked: "It must be very exhausting to dance every 5 or 10 minutes in searing hot weather. What do you do keep energy levels high?" Her reply:
The heat gets annoying. I try to embrace it. The energy is just part of the job. We have to appear upbeat even if we're exhausted.
But the takeaway from her interview seemed to be what she ended up having to repeat more than once, that "the sxism is worse here by far". notsosleepy asked her if she was a feminist and to share her thoughts on cheerleading, especially in India, being a means to objectify women as sxual objects.
I am a feminist, and I admit that I am bothered. When I danced and cheered in the U.S. I felt less like that. If you were to watch female dancers on Broadway, regardless of their outfit, you probably wouldn't call them a sxual object. You'd call them a dancer. I went into this contract as a dancer, finding that I'm treated more as a s*x object.

I try to be forgiving of human nature so I'm rolling with the punches. I also enjoy what I do regardless. But I wouldn't renew this contract for another year unless things changed.
 
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Well, no surprises there. It's good to hear another perspective from an outsider.

The hiring of white women is interesting...
 
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The obsession for white skin and the objectifying of women is something in Indian society that needs to be kicked out ASAP. Of course there are some Indians here who will spin-doctor and defend what has been blamed against India for "patriotic reasons".
 
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This is indeed a sad problem in our nation/region ... and there is absolutely no one else to blame but us!

Put a darker skinned actor (especially woman) into a movie and I can hear some douchebag making silly comments about her skincolor :hitwall:
 
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"I hate the racism. Why is my team
made up of 99% white girls? Why do
Indians feel it's ok to dress white girls
up in skimpy outfits but they won't let
their fellow Indian women do it? It's
messed up."

What!! she wanted to be dressed in saari while dancing... and I thought wearing shorts is "their choice".... but it seems poor girl was mazboor....
first you criticize our clothing culture as a suppression of feminism.... now you claim of wearing your shorts as our sexism....
ghossssh what the heck we do???
 
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The obsession for white skin and the objectifying of women is something in Indian society that needs to be kicked out ASAP. Of course there are some Indians here who will spin-doctor and defend what has been blamed against India for "patriotic reasons".
Objectification of people has been there for milleniums(from the time of naked roman,hindu gods,godesses idols). "objectifying women" is a feminazi term. Women dont see a man with a torn lungi and a clean tuxedo in the same light,do they??, they even judge them based on their shoes,bank balances,cars what not? So the term "objectifying women" is irrelevant as we all are objectified in some way.
As for the preference of white skin well a lot of indian women themselves crave for a fair skin(the millions of fairness adds on TV),they cover their faces with eyes only visible all the time not wanting to get tanned.Indian women have to change this attitude as many men(including me) think that a women with tanned skin tone is hotter provided she has a good face cut,figure and above all a charming personality.
 
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Like I said, there will be Indians who would now put the blame on her rather than do some introspection.

Objectification of people has been there for milleniums(from the time of naked roman,hindu gods,godesses idols). "objectifying women" is a feminazi term. Women dont see a man with a torn lungi and a clean tuxedo in the same light,do they??, they even judge them based on their shoes,bank balances,cars what not? So the term "objectifying women" is irrelevant as we all are objectified in some way.
As for the preference of white skin well a lot of indian women themselves crave for a fair skin(the millions of fairness adds on TV),they cover their faces with eyes only visible all the time not wanting to get tanned.Indian women have to change this attitude as many men(including me) think that a women with tanned skin tone is hotter provided she has a good face cut,figure and above all a charming personality.

Sigh.....

Yes, there were idols of naked goddesses and for drawing one such painting a certain MF Hussain was kicked out of India, ironically by Hindu extremists. And it is yet again Hindu extremists who shout the loudest against V-Day and "western culture".

Objectifying women is not a feminazi term. Objectifying women is a crude male mentality that feels that these white cheerleaders who wear hot pants and dance will have no problems or objections if a man asks them for sex. After all only "sl*ts" dance like cheerleaders, isn't it?

Yes, everything is the fault of the women. The men who post matrimonial ads seekng a fair wife are not racists or duche bags.
 
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The tournament is following American styles so white cheer leader because no one in india dare to do so a small dresss
 
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The tournament is following American styles so white cheer leader because no one in india dare to do so a small dresss

America is not only about white women. And who says Indian women have problems wearing such outfits?
 
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Like I said, there will be Indians who would now put the blame on her rather than do some introspection.



Sigh.....

Yes, there were idols of naked goddesses and for drawing one such painting a certain MF Hussain was kicked out of India, ironically by Hindu extremists. And it is yet again Hindu extremists who shout the loudest against V-Day and "western culture".

Objectifying women is not a feminazi term. Objectifying women is a crude male mentality that feels that these white cheerleaders who wear hot pants and dance will have no problems or objections if a man asks them for sex. After all only "sl*ts" dance like cheerleaders, isn't it?

Yes, everything is the fault of the women. The men who post matrimonial ads seekng a fair wife are not racists or duche bags.
Ok I agree I agree,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,feminist alert!!!!!
 
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Like I said, there will be Indians who would now put the blame on her rather than do some introspection.



Sigh.....

Yes, there were idols of naked goddesses and for drawing one such painting a certain MF Hussain was kicked out of India, ironically by Hindu extremists. And it is yet again Hindu extremists who shout the loudest against V-Day and "western culture".

Objectifying women is not a feminazi term. Objectifying women is a crude male mentality that feels that these white cheerleaders who wear hot pants and dance will have no problems or objections if a man asks them for sex. After all only "sl*ts" dance like cheerleaders, isn't it?

Yes, everything is the fault of the women. The men who post matrimonial ads seekng a fair wife are not racists or duche bags.


Stay myopic my friend.

I say do the introspection... but you are missing that she does like working here. She pointed out the issues she sees... but they are not the only things to be seen. But if you say everything is bad because of this one thing... I say... stay myopic
 
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One thing i learnt from PDF Indians since joining the forum 2 years ago..

It's always the fault of

Chinese
Pakistani's
Bangladeshi's
Communists
Maorists
That bloke who became the chief minister of Delhi and his supporters
Christians
Muslims
Western media
The jealous west
The jealous neighbors
The jealous rest of the world
The congress and the Gandhi's
Those that are even minutely critical of Mr.Modi
The British colonists


And their Mother in laws..:coffee:
 
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America is not only about white women. And who says Indian women have problems wearing such outfits?
Iam talking about tournament stye not women style and the tournament is started by lalit who I think studied abroad

And the women dresses like them will be classified into a type
 
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