I agree with you that the war was a tactical stalemate. But in the strategic sense, India emerged more equal than Pakistan.
As far as tank battles are concerned, the results were equal on both sides. But I guess it was a learning experience for both our forces.
I know that some if not most Indian and Pakistani sources are biased. However, the source which I've quoted is the Official Indian History of 1965 War. This document was suppressed until 1990s because it said the truth. There was a big furor when this document was released.
Further, I've come across Pakistani sources which state that in terms of armor, artillery, and self-propelled AA defense, Pakistan had an edge over India. What is ironic is that the reports that I've read are from defensejournal.
My point of contention with Ulla was the number of tanks with the IA. Neither IA nor PA had more than 1000 tanks.
You can call me naive, but I've very limited understanding of the details of military matters. I've tried reading ORBATs but have not been successful at understanding them thoroughly. I shall skip the two books mentioned by you simply because they in all likelihood are biased.
Please, do understand that I'm not trying to undermine the PA or elevate the IA, I'm merely stating what I've read from multiple sources of both the countries.
Regards.