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Is Marriage Worth It For Women?The benefits go mostly to men.

What if the wife also works ...
I saw many divorced single family..The single woman usually live in a miserable state..Many husbands urge women to give up her work..However after the woman gets old,the husband abandon the wife and marries a younger,more beautiful woman.Some even transfer property in advance and their wives can only get half of the house.
I have a friend whose mom works and supports her child,father and mother,I am sure that her husband even doesnt give her anything.
Some women may fear that and have to bear husband's affairs / family violence..
Hey life,s a gamble i almost killed myself over somebody guess what fate had decided something else for me
 
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I love marriages. I myself would like to get married someday :smitten:The whole concept of marriage is fascinating.
In India, you just don't marry the guy but his family. After marriage, I would prefer living in a joint family with my husband's family, if possible his brothers, sisters, etc. I am so thrilled to think of my days as newly wed bride when all eyes would be upon me, I would be lavishly dressed like a princess everyday, would be treated with so much love and respect from my husband and his family, would be introduced to new relatives <3....I can go on and on...
 
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I love marriages. I myself would like to get married someday :smitten:The whole concept of marriage is fascinating.
In India, you just don't marry the guy but his family. After marriage, I would prefer living in a joint family with my husband's family, if possible his brothers, sisters, etc. I am so thrilled to think of my days as newly wed bride when all eyes would be upon me, I would be lavishly dressed like a princess everyday, would be treated with so much love and respect from my husband and his family, would be introduced to new relatives <3....I can go on and on...

Choose love marriage and live separately as a couple. Get a maid to look after your young children if you both work and for your older parents. Close family is good but too close is bad ..... keep some distance.
 
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Choose love marriage and live separately as a couple. Get a maid to look after your young children if you both work and for your older parents. Close family is good but too close is bad ..... keep some distance.
I already have a BF. We have been together for 3 years now :)
 
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What if the wife also works ...
I saw many divorced single family..The single woman usually live in a miserable state..Many husbands urge women to give up her work..However after the woman gets old,the husband abandon the wife and marries a younger,more beautiful woman.Some even transfer property in advance and their wives can only get half of the house.
I have a friend whose mom works and supports her child,father and mother,I am sure that her husband even doesnt give her anything.
Some women may fear that and have to bear husband's affairs / family violence..

If the husband doesn't treat his wife well and haves affairs with other women I think the woma should be able to go for a divorce immediately but sadly by the time those things go too far they have children and divorce is hard.

A wife should also be kind and loving, she should never take advantage of her husbands kindness and shouldn't push her husband's anger and then start complaining about her husband
 
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I don't have a husband, I have a walking, talking ATM. He gets benefits out of our marriage when I get mine:p:.

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Seems to be Sven Sevenson or his fiance talking here..........:D
 
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say bye to your hobby? tools sell them, motorbike sell it, stereo system sell it, fishing kit sell it, air rifle hunting sell it, bike sell it, football give it away, do you have military gear are you collector forget it sell it. that table you made throw it in bin she wants a expensive glass table .

i swear they jealous creatures if you like your car / bike spend money on it and time. they will hatch a plan to get rid of it. they start with conversion like this yh do you love me tell me how much you really ? more than your car or bike etc. then it down hill battle.
:p: my mate waved good bye to his harley davidson not too long ago the money doing towards a new kitchen. obivsoulsy not his choice.
 
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Marriage is an affair that is very heavily rigged in the favour of women

Actually is heavily rigged against women. I have seen two cases. The husband gets in a car accident and is paralyzed and the wife is expected to serve and look after him and she still does. One wife got breast cancer and in a year husband divorces her marries a younger woman. This happens more often and the society only forces women to compromise.
 
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arrange marriage is like bank transfer contract you get her but she is their future investment with interest added. i am talking about her mum and dad waiting for cash injection. but also getting girl friend can be disaster she use you and fcuk next man behind your back you cant hit her you go jail, she takes the kids too.

uk now does not support solicitors for lower income people so many families broken, now you have to get your solicitor very expensive. this caused so much pain. so those that would like to see their kid chances are low.
 
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