First you suggested the USA was in "total control" of Russia at that time, now you're referencing the Chechen wars as illustrations of Russia standing up to western encroachment. Which doesn't make sense.
Also Chechnya was never considered a candidate for NATO membership.
Russia had begun calling out NATO's eastward expansion prior to the 2008 Georgia war.
Russia had begun calling out NATO's eastward expansion prior to the 2014 Ukraine war.
Belarus Coup Attempt 2021
Russia had begun calling out NATO's eastward expansion prior to the 2021 Belarus coup attempt.
Kazakhstan Coup Attempt 2022.
Russia had begun calling out NATO's eastward expansion prior to the 2022 Kazakhstan coup attempt.
They started doing something when they gained the capability to do so.
That's not the point. Your assertion was that if Russia refrained from denouncing the supposed anti-Russian aim behind the USA's wars in West Asia and North Africa, it's because she was unable to do anything about these aggressions and that speaking out under such conditions would have brought humiliation upon Moscow.
This is invalidated by the fact that Russia had been protesting NATO's enlargement in eastern Europe and describing it as a hostile act many years before she took her first concrete measures against it, and she was doing so without worrying in the slightest about what you term humiliation. So the logic of your contention is decidedly flawed, and the USA regime didn't have Russia on its mind when it attacked Iraq in 2003. QED.
You say that as if it can't be both.
If the U.S. cared more about Israel than their other priorities, they would have obviously gone after Iran first.
Not exactly. For Iran is too massive a stumbling block.
Also the invasion of Iraq was essentially brought about by the zionist lobby, as shown by Mearsheimer and Walt in their seminal work "The Israel Lobby".
You describe realpolitik as an adequate explanatory model for USA foreign policy, yet the two authors right here are among the upmost representatives of the realist school of international studies i.e. believers in realpolitik. Neither of them, nor any other prominent realist scholar identified containment of Russia as the chief motivation behind the USA regime's post-9/11 wars in the Moslem world.
There are simply too many holes in this peculiar theory, several of which have been highlighted already.
Here's another: if Washington was "totally controlling Russia" until 2008 as you claimed, and if its entire foreign policy was mainly revolving around Moscow, then certainly the Americans would have put to use this "control" of theirs to subvert and incapacitate Russia in such a manner as to make sure that a Putin wouldn't have been able to put her back on track only few years later.