Honestly. this is getting beyond the point of preposterous
rain, snow or sunshine --- hindustany would never cease to amaze me
They test sea-launched nuclear missiles (offensive); plan to induct nuclear subs with help by Russia (surely not defensive!); soviet-era aircraft carrier (surely not defensive!); they are conducting missile tests bi-monthly (offensive, though they often fail anyways); they are planning to induct 126 MRCA (a disturbing development, albeit less of a worry for now, given the sluggish and politicized nature of indian procurement)
so they'll complain when we get a few night vision goggles/monoculars (which security forces badly need to fight the militants), un-armed UAVs (not a new capability for Pakistan, we've been manufacturing them ourselves for a little less than a decade); and other items that are purely defensive in nature. The funny thing is, many of these deals were signed over 5 years ago under the tenure of President Gen (retd.) Musharraf.
I think it annoys indian that we are capable of protecting every single centimeter of our motherland, and capable of responding quite effectively to any mis-adventure or games they dare to wage on the Republic.
my suggestion to them would be to focus more on the internal problems which they have; security-wise (insurgencies, such as the naxalites) and socially/economical (such as the massive poverty and AIDS/HIV existing there).
We never bash the Russians, israilis (or even -- the AMERICANS) when they sell weapons or force multiplier/capability-enhancing equipment to our enemy.
in the end, it's just diplomacy and self-interests. indians could learn a thing or two about diplomacy. I'm sure (all) her neighbours would agree with that!