You got very close there, why do you want us to take sides. Why is it not possible for us to remain equidistant from every one? Yes, I admit that the US has been good to us lately, but the problem comes when in return for its favours, the US expects our blind support on issues like Iran, Myanmar or Syria. We are in no position to give such unconditional support because there are some areas where our views do not converge. That is why India is different from Australia or Japan or South Korea who support the US in everything it does. Also, do you expect us to ditch Russia who stood by us always and is doing so even today? India has strong views against use of military force to degrade the sovereignty of any nation while the US has been doing just this with impunity for many decades now. the point is that just as our strategic interests converge on many issues, there are also some substantial issues on which we differ. This aspect has to be understood, good relations with a super power is great but we do not wish to become camp followers.
This is how it is. Do not take this as a Marxist/Socialist inspired view or a NAM hangover. We want to retain our independence in choosing our own path for ourselves. We wish to retain an independent foreign policy. This is the reality. The sooner America understands this, the better.
Yes, the Arunachal thing is not very important. We know that the US will not go to war with China for India. We are working towards a point where China will realise that attacking India over Arunachal or Ladakh is no longer a cost effective proposition. It is called dissuasive deterrence. Your country has helped us in that endeavour, so has Russia, thanks.