Even if, as you say, IAF is less competent than PAF, it will be a bad thing as long as India is not significantly above Pakistan in terms of economy, GDP per capita, technology, human resource indicators etc. If India goes much above Pak pretty soon then these factors will be sufficient to cease any military comparisons. But this state of affairs will be pretty hard to achieve.
Case in point is China. Their capabilities are so vast compared to India that no longer is any sane person talking about competition, we're just thinking whether we'll get there, and how soon (except for the horrible levels of political freedoms and some important human rights that the Chinese have). Even if, as Indians and Paks like to think, the Chinese are poor soldiers, their economy and technological capabilities are just overwhelming for us Indians.
But yes, i don't know how much the armed forces are being made incompetent by the Modi GoI, not that Congress or others were particularly interested in making the Indian armed forces strong - they just made it strong enough for Pak Army to change stance from offense to offensive-defensive or just plain defensive. China was out of the question. We were and are just dozing.
This seems to be very valid for the Pakistan Army. Are there still takers for the martial race theory? The martial race fantasy is less valid in the modern context where you need more thinking people in charge of local operations. Just running with a sword towards the enemy isn't enough.