Starting from the end, well, yes, perhaps that would be true of this forum, not of the robust civil society that seems to have taken firm root in Pakistan. I did mention that I was speaking specifically of PDF. However, all is not necessarily well yet.
As for worrying, my friend Raza Rumi has re-settled in the US after an assassination attempt failed, killing his harmless driver. Another friend does not participate in Pakistani forums because he attracts very hostile attention almost at the point of entry, and within the tenth post, people accuse him of being Ahmedi.
No doubt your society is improving rapidly, just at the moment when ours is going through a nightmare. There is still reason for caution. Discretion is the better part of valour.