There r lot of thing haram in islam.
Murder of another muslim is haram but u never talked about those when it is being done to our Pakistani by our own forces.
STealing money of another is also haram but u keep quiet.
However, whenever a physically weak but mentally strong person decided to fight back by giving his her own life then its haram ... how ? If this is haram then a soldier fighting in a certain death situation is also haram.
If the women is a paid mercenary then its haram its a murder for money. But if its a reaction of something bad happened to her in past by the person she attacked then may be its not ...
Anyways in past i used to blindly support our forces but now i am not sure that who is right and who is wrong ... r u sure that its the baloch he are terrorists? Or do they have geniune problems inflicted on them by our own elites ? And they dont have any option but to fight back with whatever loosi g strategy they have got ...