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Food for thought ...
1. @Divergent1 has rejected West's Liberal Secularism for Pakistan - that's 'interesting' - although the 'in-between' she mentioned no one is sure of (as no such system exists). Maybe her A-Team will give her some pointers (pun intended).
2. A woman's true physical beauty and attraction is her face - there should be no doubt that! Women are considered precious gems in Islam and covering the face is not about oppression or power of men - far from it. People should get out of their biases and genuinely reflect on the positives of niqab. Those women who have never worn it, should try it for a little time to at least develop a tiny little understanding instead of labelling it as oppressive and backwards. Again, think/reflect and study the Deen.
3. There is nothing 'tharki' about discussing a woman's apparent beauty (i.e. face) in the context of this topic specifically.
4. A woman showing off her curves and skin is gaining what good/positives? That's something they need to think over. Is there really empowerment in having men chase after by flaunting one's self? For the sake of argument, it may be fun but that fun is doing what good for you? How is that shaping you to be a better human? Qualify and Quantify the benefits. In West women flaunt themselves to get up the career ladder, to find a rich+handsome guy to marry, to be praised etc ... all material desires. But this beauty doesn't last, time will catch up and no amount of botox will retain it and then many such women (& men) end up in old people's homes dying alone. If one is ugly from inside, it will show on the face eventually.
5. Women have been supressed the world over (more so in the West than anywhere else, and that's changed in only last 60-70yrs or so), and muslim men really should change their approach as well by learning and embracing Deen to bring themselves and their women folk into the fold. The usual counter argument/question of 'what is Islamic about you that I should be in niqab?' is a valid one, and men should pay heed. Set yourself as an example first and the woman will follow (most will, and those who do not, leave them).
1. @Divergent1 has rejected West's Liberal Secularism for Pakistan - that's 'interesting' - although the 'in-between' she mentioned no one is sure of (as no such system exists). Maybe her A-Team will give her some pointers (pun intended).
2. A woman's true physical beauty and attraction is her face - there should be no doubt that! Women are considered precious gems in Islam and covering the face is not about oppression or power of men - far from it. People should get out of their biases and genuinely reflect on the positives of niqab. Those women who have never worn it, should try it for a little time to at least develop a tiny little understanding instead of labelling it as oppressive and backwards. Again, think/reflect and study the Deen.
3. There is nothing 'tharki' about discussing a woman's apparent beauty (i.e. face) in the context of this topic specifically.
4. A woman showing off her curves and skin is gaining what good/positives? That's something they need to think over. Is there really empowerment in having men chase after by flaunting one's self? For the sake of argument, it may be fun but that fun is doing what good for you? How is that shaping you to be a better human? Qualify and Quantify the benefits. In West women flaunt themselves to get up the career ladder, to find a rich+handsome guy to marry, to be praised etc ... all material desires. But this beauty doesn't last, time will catch up and no amount of botox will retain it and then many such women (& men) end up in old people's homes dying alone. If one is ugly from inside, it will show on the face eventually.
5. Women have been supressed the world over (more so in the West than anywhere else, and that's changed in only last 60-70yrs or so), and muslim men really should change their approach as well by learning and embracing Deen to bring themselves and their women folk into the fold. The usual counter argument/question of 'what is Islamic about you that I should be in niqab?' is a valid one, and men should pay heed. Set yourself as an example first and the woman will follow (most will, and those who do not, leave them).