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If you are not hypocrite, you should have only one choice, honor her moral job and co operate with her.And if she keeps doing it, I will have two choices
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If you are not hypocrite, you should have only one choice, honor her moral job and co operate with her.And if she keeps doing it, I will have two choices
That's my choice. I probably will tell the girl I want to marry to get rid of her pets(if she has any). Because I don't like other animals in my house. I have the right to choose as well on a personal level. But I won't argue for making it a law that married couple can't keep pets.If you are not hypocrite, you should have only one choice, honor her moral job and co operate with her.
Well if her feelings are reciprocal than I think you certainly have the right to ask and expect her to find a different job. And she certainly has the duty to follow through. Of course, if she refuses and you decide to suck it up and go along with it then ok. But if you two decide to get married, then she definitely needs to get a new job.If I fall for her despite knowing what she does, should I have the right to force her to quit? I can ask her to quit, but can't force. And if she keeps doing it, I will have two choices. Either to suck it up or to leave it. Forcing my choices on someone isn't something I am fond of.
You are getting too caught up on "marriage". I doubt he sees marriage as a anything but a redundant concept. Which I would agree if he thinks it that way. If you like someone, they like you back and you both want to start a relationship, then you simply do just that and live together. There is no middle process of signing a paper required. Don't know why signing a government paper makes people feel their relationship is "something more".Well if her feelings are reciprocal than I think you certainly have the right to ask and expect her to find a different job. And she certainly has the duty to follow through. Of course, if she refuses and you decide to suck it up and go along with it then ok. But if you two decide to get married, then she definitely needs to get a new job.
Regardless though, this is a relationship, it now involves two people. Even if it's premarital, you both have the right to expect things from each other. There's nothing wrong with that.
Marriage is a bit older than that. It's prevalent in a majority of cultures, it would be easier to name cultures that don't have it. It's seen as a final step. Regardless, I also agree if he doesn't want to get married then fine. I respect his decision and honestly I might end up the same way.You are getting too caught up on "marriage". I doubt he sees marriage as a anything but a redundant concept. Which I would agree if he thinks it that way. If you like someone, they like you back and you both want to start a relationship, then you simply do just that and live together. There is no middle process of signing a paper required. Don't know why signing a government paper makes people feel their relationship is "something more".
As for his feelings about a prostitute, if in the midway of his relationship he wants her to quit and she doesn't, they both can simply go on their merry way and find someone who will conform to their needs. There's no need for marriage whether prostitute or not.
And why that will be your choice ? If only software engineers are allowed as your wife then that's different case .That's my choice.
Would you marry a maid? And if you, let's say, happen to like her so much that you do, would you tell her to quit even if she doesn't want to?@Mage , before pushing your dirty word game, can you explain why you will ask your girl ( whom you fall for without knowing that she is prostitute) to quite her job?
Because it's your choice right?
So what if she also ask you to quit her job that you consider moral?
Why anyone will quit a moral job only because her man ask her to quit?
Do you only want to marry only another software engineer?
I am not total dismissive of the idea. I think it is needed in poor countries where opportunities for education and workforce is lacking for say women.Marriage is a bit older than that. It's prevalent in a majority of cultures, it would be easier to name cultures that don't have it. It's seen as a final step. Regardless, I also agree if he doesn't want to get married then fine. I respect his decision and honestly I might end up the same way.
I agree with the 2nd part of your post, except I think it would be best to want that before the relationship starts.
I am free to like whatever I want. But I won't ask the law to be designed to fit my likeness. I probably won't marry a waitress or a girl working in a bank either....like I won't marry a very religious girl either. My marriage, my choice. And If I decide to whore myself out, it is my own choice as well. I don't need care about public opinion about these.can you explain why you will ask your girl ( whom you fall for without knowing that she is prostitute) to quite her job? She will not bring customers I house, just she will go to hotel to find customers. Still you will ask her to quite the moral Job?
She can...and If I am madly in love(which is unlikely), I might do that as well.So what if she also ask you to quit her job that you consider moral?
Oh..yeah...I would rather not marry a software engineer either. See, only hookers aren't blacklisted.Do you only want to marry only another software engineer?
Or girls from any other professions are allowed too? Answer it honestly!
That depends on what she prefers more. Me or her current work.And she certainly has the duty to follow through.
I'm don't know how it is in Malaysia or Sweden but here in the US, marriage gives you insurance benefits and tax breaks. Not a romantic reason but it is a reason.I am not total dismissive of the idea. I think it is needed in poor countries where opportunities for education and workforce is lacking for say women.
I would say about my own mother. She isn't very educated and she is from an era where in Bangladesh she would never have the same opportunity as my dad. I think for his time (and currently for the most part of our country) marriage is important since not having a legal barrier might make things a lot worse for her and other women.
My point of view of marriage in the post you quoted is about where you both have the same opportunities. If I had to guess, you or I or mage wouldn't marry an uneducated girl. And if that is the case then those educated girls can stand on their own feet. They can build their career and make stable lifestyle for themselves where a boyfriend coming or leaving wouldn't have much impact financially or life stability. In these type of scenarios and in developed countries, I see literally no use for marriage.
True, best to forget about it if she prefers work.That depends on what she prefers more. Me or her current work.
and people complain specially south asian countries filipino are bad lol
double standards
good to see need more escort and foreigners heheheheh
religion is dead in BD already anyones says anything are called militant or terrorist etc...
Eid er porei andolon koren.so:
you want a easy life without any restrain and obligation,
you want to exercise your rights without any restrain and obligation,
You want to make logic all day, without any restrain and obligation,
Welcome to the Journey of "Joy Bangla to Gay Bangla".
2008 to 2018.
That's a substantial claim subjected to observe over time!
Eid er porei andolon koren.
Ideally people shouldn't have to. But now Awami league is too firmly in power. They are in a position to conduct a meme election and stay in power. And they would do it. Same was tried by BNP in the past too. But they failed. I personally feel Awami league have done a decent job governing the country. And I would've preferred to vote Awami League in a fair election if the viable options are Awami League and BNP. But neither I am there to vote nor there is a fair election which needs my vote. But you can do Eid er pore andolon for that.So why would people have to straggle for a fair election?