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Emirati wife sends herself a 'divorce message' from husband's phone out of desperation

It is just the start so everything looks good but it may have some bumps down the road... Allah knows the best He may protect every married couple from doubts, hatred, and sorrows.
Everyone has bumps. It's how you handle them. Both of you give and take. Then it will be ok. Dont you (both) be stubborn. Try not to involve others and you will be fine inshallah.

But can she cook like your mum that's the question. Looool
 
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Everyone has bumps. It's how you handle them. Both of you give and take. Then it will be ok. Dont you (both) be stubborn. Try not to involve others and you will be fine inshallah.

But can she cook like your mum that's the question. Looool
Yes we are learning. We have blessings of our parents but I know some people are not happy as usual. Totally agreed...to never let others get involved. Celebrate small things and don't promise big...no need to gift expensive cars and pent houses to each other rather share small things like chocolates, flowers, rings.
No she does not know much about cooking except making nice and healthy smoothies and juices but she is learning...watches Pakistani recipes on youtube and makes funny tasting food but I still eat it. We share a lot of activities like skiing, skating, triathlon, video games, swimming etc and painting so those compensate for than enough
 
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If she can cook then she good she get plenty of loving at night.
 
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Yes we are learning. We have blessings of our parents but I know some people are not happy as usual. Totally agreed...to never let others get involved. Celebrate small things and don't promise big...no need to gift expensive cars and pent houses to each other rather share small things like chocolates, flowers, rings.
No she does not know much about cooking except making nice and healthy smoothies and juices but she is learning...watches Pakistani recipes on youtube and makes funny tasting food but I still eat it. We share a lot of activities like skiing, skating, triathlon, video games, swimming etc and painting so those compensate for than enough
Excellent....
People are never happy to see you happy. If she is a nice person and cares about you then most of the battle is won. I am rather strong willed and married who I wanted. Ofcoure you can imagine the family. But now they love my wife more than me. Crazy as I am very lovable except to Indians on PDF.. .loool.
No seriously food etc you guys will learn. Both my wife and I enjoy cooking she got me into travels and she won't travel now but I spend months away. We are in Pakistan and mountains here are the best. In April I am planning Thailand Vietnam Laos and Cambodia she won't be coming but allows me to do the traveling as I don't smoke drink etc etc. Life is ehat you make it. The best present i ever gave my wife wss a ginger brad man. Of all the presents that was the one that gave her the most delight. Woke up early went to a Local bakery for a fresh bloomer load and saw this beautiful gingerbread man. Value of presents is only important to selfish people. I pray you both and everyone on PDF have lovely lives with their families. We have a new addition a cat. He is a terror except when he needs food then he is the sweatest. Loool

If she can cook then she good she get plenty of loving at night.
Oh dear ...... I guess you will get kicked out of bed the first night
 
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Excellent....
People are never happy to see you happy. If she is a nice person and cares about you then most of the battle is won. I am rather strong willed and married who I wanted. Ofcoure you can imagine the family. But now they love my wife more than me. Crazy as I am very lovable except to Indians on PDF.. .loool.
No seriously food etc you guys will learn. Both my wife and I enjoy cooking she got me into travels and she won't travel now but I spend months away. We are in Pakistan and mountains here are the best. In April I am planning Thailand Vietnam Laos and Cambodia she won't be coming but allows me to do the traveling as I don't smoke drink etc etc. Life is ehat you make it. The best present i ever gave my wife wss a ginger brad man. Of all the presents that was the one that gave her the most delight. Woke up early went to a Local bakery for a fresh bloomer load and saw this beautiful gingerbread man. Value of presents is only important to selfish people. I pray you both and everyone on PDF have lovely lives with their families. We have a new addition a cat. He is a terror except when he needs food then he is the sweatest. Loool


Oh dear ...... I guess you will get kicked out of bed the first night

Nope i lock bedroom door and show her whos the ssg.
 
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Excellent....
People are never happy to see you happy. If she is a nice person and cares about you then most of the battle is won. I am rather wrong willed and married who I wanted. Ofcoure you can imagine the family. But now they love my wife more than me. Crazy as I am very lovable except to Indians on PDF.. .loool.
No seriously food etc you guys will learn. Both my wife and I enjoy cooking she got me into travels nd she won't travel now but I spend months away. We are in Pakistan and mountains here are the best. In April I am planning Thailand Vietnam Laos and Cambodia she won't be coming but allows me to do the traveling as I don't smoke drink etc etc

Excellent but whenever possible take her with you. Pakistan is the best place for mountain seeing and mountaineering (if you're into) ... no two opinions about it. Yes some people are not happy but the great thing is that we are geographically far from them (most of them are in USA ;)) and I don't intend to invite them to our main function.

The most important thing is that our immediate families are happy with us and for us. It was not typical arranged marriage rather we met, we observed / liked each other and then involved parents so they tied our knot...we wanted engagement, they turned it into nikkah and hence we got married :-).. I think my father was tooo eager that finally I selected someone and when he met her and her family....he just wanted it to be permanent :lol::lol: thus constraining my freedoms...which I was willing to let go on this occasion for the first time in my life after dodging so many traps thanks to my slippery fish like moves / lame excuses.

Though I personally don't like spending time in kitchen but I have accumulated all the available equipment so as to minimise my stay which helps her a lot.....but still I'm glad to assist her in cooking like by passing ingredients, or helping her understand the complex manuals of the machines or putting the things in place ... or setting up video recording for her cooking sessions which are private ....not open for public...not even for me...because of all the mess ups she makes :lol: ..but I have secret some plans..

Nope i lock bedroom door and show her whos the ssg.
Do you have a lot of SSG's pictures?
 
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Excellent but whenever possible take her with you. Pakistan is the best place for mountain seeing and mountaineering (if you're into) ... no two opinions about it. Yes some people are not happy but the great thing is that we are geographically far from them (most of them are in USA ;)) and I don't intend to invite them to our main function.

The most important thing is that our immediate families are happy with us and for us. It was not typical arranged marriage rather we met, we observed / liked each other and then involved parents so they tied our knot...we wanted engagement, they turned into nikkah and hence married :-).. I think my father was tooo eager that finally I selected someone and when he met her and her family....he just wanted it to be permanent :lol::lol: thus constraining my freedoms...which I was willing to let go on this occasion for the first time in my life after dodging so many traps thanks to my slippery fish like moves / lame excuses.

Though I personally don't like spending time in kitchen but I have accumulated all the available equipment so as to minimise my stay which helps her a lot.....but still I'm glad to assist her in cooking like by passing ingredients, or helping her understand the complex manuals of the machines or putting the things in place ... or setting up video recording for her cooking sessions which are private ....not open for public...not even for me...because of all the mess ups she makes :lol: ..but I have secret some plans..


Do you have a lot of SSG's pictures?
Mashallah you have the recipe. Enjoy your time. I pray you live long happy and prosperous lives.

As for SSG no comment looool
 
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Mashallah you have the recipe. Enjoy your time. I pray you live long happy and prosperous lives.

As for SSG no comment looool
Thanks....same for you brother.. just be careful and give her more time
 
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Thanks....same for you brother.. just be careful and give her more time
My wife mashallah went from being a typical western girl to a really religious one. That why she doesn't travel with me on these treks and expeditions. But its her choice and I have to respect it. She lets me travel. But it would be cool of she came with me but hey can't have everything in life can we. She makes amazing cakes looool
 
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Excellent but whenever possible take her with you. Pakistan is the best place for mountain seeing and mountaineering (if you're into) ... no two opinions about it. Yes some people are not happy but the great thing is that we are geographically far from them (most of them are in USA ;)) and I don't intend to invite them to our main function.

The most important thing is that our immediate families are happy with us and for us. It was not typical arranged marriage rather we met, we observed / liked each other and then involved parents so they tied our knot...we wanted engagement, they turned it into nikkah and hence we got married :-).. I think my father was tooo eager that finally I selected someone and when he met her and her family....he just wanted it to be permanent :lol::lol: thus constraining my freedoms...which I was willing to let go on this occasion for the first time in my life after dodging so many traps thanks to my slippery fish like moves / lame excuses.

Though I personally don't like spending time in kitchen but I have accumulated all the available equipment so as to minimise my stay which helps her a lot.....but still I'm glad to assist her in cooking like by passing ingredients, or helping her understand the complex manuals of the machines or putting the things in place ... or setting up video recording for her cooking sessions which are private ....not open for public...not even for me...because of all the mess ups she makes :lol: ..but I have secret some plans..


Do you have a lot of SSG's pictures?
my ahem other, can stare at them no way. i am her invader i mean savior.
 
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