Dear Pakistanis, why do you think single women are a joke?

[Chauvinist]

The highlighting is important. We place too much emphasis on ego to even consider looking at the horrible faults in our society.

Okay Highlight the things but why necessarily in western media ?? Kuch faida hua kbi uska ?? Apni society main highlight Karen na in a healthy way.. which has an effect ..but yahan pay highlight just Breaking news k lie hi hota hai..By highlighting internationally we would get some fame and tours to dream countries but it won't do any good in our society.

 

[padamchen]

I do not think single women are a joke. In fact in a society like ours, they are rare and therefore extremely interesting. Most single women I have met have a story. And I clarify that I would technically classify a woman as single when she is past 30, maybe 35. Before that, she is still in the marriage pool. Barely.

 

[خره مينه لګته وي]

I do not think single women are a joke. In fact in a society like ours, they are rare and therefore extremely interesting. Most single women I have met have a story. And I clarify that I would technically classify a woman as single when she is past 30, maybe 35. Before that, she is still in the marriage pool. Barely.

Shaadiyan karthi nhi hain phir jab Time haath se nikal jay tho bolthi hain ka mujhy Burhay Admi se shaadi nhi karni

 

[Moonlight]

Shaadiyan karthi nhi hain phir jab Time haath se nikal jay tho bolthi hain ka mujhy Burhay Admi se shaadi nhi karni

 

[padamchen]

Shaadiyan karthi nhi hain phir jab Time haath se nikal jay tho bolthi hain ka mujhy Burhay Admi se shaadi nhi karni

In my experience, very few women actually consciously delay getting married. Bas ho jata hai. There is then a period of depression and frustration. If she weathers that, then the woman who emerges on the other side is someone who more often than not is really interesting.

 

[Pakistansdefender]

I used to laugh at such kind of post , that Pakistani people are a bit nosy about other peoples private matters. Our aunties and uncles are always asking"shadi kub karani hai" and i get into a long argument "shadi kerni hai kerani nhn hai lolx"...but thats their traditional way .......aunties inquiring bout khush khabri . everyone nosing into every single affairs .......but i have not given it a bit of a thought.
But me as a male , 26th year old and my parents are after me that i marry instantly . They have been asking me to marry since i graduate, first they are merely start mentioning , then insisting and now forcing , always pointing out potential partners. they are parents and its their job to think about their kids .
But what i am most amazed and mad about is the behaviour of the society . everyone inquires about you . apparently the quote of jane austin modified by me a bit is very right
"It is a truth universally acknowledged in pakistan, that a single man in possession of a good job, must be in want of a wife."
It is very strange , the neighbors are inquiring your mother that why you dont marry at the age of 26 , your aunties are most worried and telling your mother"ab to ho jani chahiya shadi etc" . and apparently all every family member was interested in is your marriage . even the far flung relatives inquire about your marriage .
the married friends look at you pityingly as though your parents are doing injustice with you by not marrying you instantly , they don't grasp the idea that maybe you not ready to be married yet........
what they fail to grasp is that one marries when one wanted to, and its none of their business . if they are married it is not their duty to get everyone married .
i don't discouraged early marriages but everyone has their own mind , most of my friends are married instantly as soon as they graduate from colleges . but one can also choose to marry later in life . its not the end after all .
i can totally imagine what scenario it is for girls if this happens in the society with guys.
it is totally different thing if your parents worry about your marriage but the society , relative have no business but none follow this formula . apparently it is every body business in pakistan .....

 

[Zibago]

I will continue to post the crap like this... Do what you can... !!!!

apko koyi rokey kisi ki ye majal

Its better to get married when the time is right ................. its better. There will come an age when you would regret remaining single.

but charaon ko kamrey kiyon nahi daitey ham kiya paisey nahi de saktey ?

 

[I.R.A]

but charaon ko kamrey kiyon nahi daitey ham kiya paisey nahi de saktey ?

You are asking someone who had to suffer because of the useless charay himself. Not all charay are that shareef bachay some of them really don't deserve to come near areas where families are living.

 

[Zibago]

You are asking someone who had to suffer because of the useless charay himself. Not all charay are that shareef bachay some of them really don't deserve to come near areas where families are living.

A good friend of mine was not allowed to rent a room in a good sector despite agreeing to pay 6 months rent in advance mujhay koyi masla nahi i live with my parents

 

[I.R.A]

A good friend of mine was not allowed to rent a room in a good sector despite agreeing to pay 6 months rent in advance mujhay koyi masla nahi i live with my parents

I have rented my property (Apartment) to one of the students of NDU. My conditions were no girls, no drinks rest you can do whatever you want. Didn't ask him any advance and agreed to a reasonable rent. And there are single females living in other apartments in the same block and area.

Mostly working bachelors don't face much problem in getting an apartment or room on rent, its the weekend partybaz bachay and bachia who have created problem for all.

 

[Zibago]

I have rented my property (Apartment) to one of the students of NDU. My conditions were no girls, no drinks rest you can do whatever you want. Didn't ask him any advance and agreed to a reasonable rent. And there are single females living in other apartments in the same block and area.

People are just not willing to do that we searched a lot and they had huge reservations on students and single {some were willing to do that for singles with jobs but no relaxations for student}

i heard this line from multiple places
Students be-aiteybarey hain

 

[Hell hound]

Its better to get married when the time is right ................. its better. There will come an age when you would regret remaining single.

har married banda yahi kehta hay. kya reason hay is kay pichay. what is one going to regret afterwards if he don't get married at young age of 25-30

 

[I.R.A]

People are just not willing to do that we searched a lot and they had huge reservations on students and single {some were willing to do that for singles with jobs but no relaxations for student}

i heard this line from multiple places
Students be-aiteybarey hain

Seriously you live in Islamabad and you don't know what happens in these newly constructed apartments?

 

[Hell hound]

People are just not willing to do that we searched a lot and they had huge reservations on students and single {some were willing to do that for singles with jobs but no relaxations for student}

i heard this line from multiple places
Students be-aiteybarey hain

yeah i too never get it why my drinking or girl friend can be cause of concern for my neighbor or home owner (if he is not living in the lower portion).if i am minding my own business and causing zero fuss then why these guys have problems with me.
only guy who has any right to say something is the one living with me,above me or below me

Seriously you live in Islamabad and you don't know what happens in these newly constructed apartments?

sir jee hota bhi hay to agar music ouncha nahi hay, koi disturb nahi ho raha to kisi ko kya masla hay.
anpey ghar ki char dewari main kar rahin hay jo bhi kar rahey hain hum kon hotey hain un ko rokney waley

 

[Zibago]

Seriously you live in Islamabad and you don't know what happens in these newly constructed apartments?

Pata hay sharab..shabab ki mehfilain hotein hain i know some pizza guys who transport GOODS to G-13,G-15 but ab har koyi to nahi na suspect ban jata