Chinese men’s marriages to local women often end badly

[Viet]

Maybe I should have been clearer. The OP's article describes a certain type of marriage involving marriage "brokers". These types of marriage necessarily involve loser men and hooker women. They were bound to go wrong. I don't include normal cross-nationality marriages in this category.

your logic sucks. your head is full of shit. for example, there is a boom of dating websites right now in germany.

girls looking for grooms are free.
men looking for brides must pay a "fee".

are those businesses hooker agencies? actually they don´t differ much from other classical ways.

 

[Raphael]

your logic sucks. your head is full of shit. for example, there is a boom of dating websites right now in germany.

girls looking for grooms are free.
men looking for brides must pay a "fee".

are those businesses hooker agencies? actually they don´t differ much from other classical ways.

But they are different. Do these dating sites involve coercion and human trafficking? Stop trying to legitimatize pimping. Your women are the victims of this practice.

 

[dlclong]

Its simple business. Supply and demand. If there will be Chinese men looking for Vietnamese brides, there will always been a supply.

Lastly, not all Vietnamese foreign brides. The OP is considering minority cases. There are a lot of Vietnamese foreign brides who had married Japanese men. Mostly the Vietnamese brides make good wives, they have more than 3-4 children, raise them lovingly, as well as i have heard.

If there are Vietnamese wives leaving China for Vietnam, one should consider the treatment the wife was receiving. If the wife was being beaten, molested, physically or mentally abused by the husband, then she has the right to leave such destructive relationship. Of course, the OP's article doesn't take that into consideration.

some digression, Some brides are really , some are false.Maybe you do not know, some Vietnamese devoted to the "marriage" fraud, through the "marriage introducer" charge Introduction fees, Shortly after the marriage, The "bride" disappeared. Then these "bride" working again with the "middleman" together, fraud another person. because this，some people even infected with the AIDS
i've Seen many times this kind of coverage.

 

[Viet]

But they are different. Do these dating sites involve coercion and human trafficking? Stop trying to legitimatize pimping. Your women are the victims of this practice.

I welcome you to encourage your government to stop all kinds of human trafficking. chinese gangs are good at.

 

[William Hung]

Has nothing to do with economic, rather than social problem. China onechildpolicy and barbarian practices favor males created social un balance, where Chinese men desperate go to foreign country seek for wives. Vietnam richer than Laos and Cambodia, you do not see that Viet men desperate go to these country seek for marriage?

Vietnam and China both have a gender imbalance problem, more male than female. Some Chinese men solve this problem by seeking foreign bride.

You said VN male don't go seek foreign bride like in Cambodia or Laos. So how do these Viets deal with the girl shortage problem? they just become gay with each other?

 

[Rechoice]

I am poor now, I have to sell my kidney for money. Can you lend me some money?

I don't think so. China is paradise, you are rich man too, and you do an Auditing for some company, you are should be paid extra money for good auditing report.

I would like to borrow from you a little money to help Vietnamese H'mong kid , she is 14 year old, but she is trafficked to China, she call for help to turn home in Vietnam.

Here is her home address in Vietnam and name of father and mother.

 

[Viet]

Vietnam and China both have a gender imbalance problem, more male than female. Some Chinese men solve this problem by seeking foreign bride.

You said VN male don't go seek foreign bride like in Cambodia or Laos. So how do these Viets deal with the girl shortage problem? they just become gay with each other?

actually only the minority marries non-viet grooms. 18,000 were last year according to statistic.
so that is NOT an exodus, nor the majority. gender imbalance exists in VN, too, but less than in CN.

viet men rarely marry girls from southeast asia. that comes from the classical ancient view that say people of those nations are barbarians. how to deal with the girl shortage problem? some marry chinese girls if you haven´t noticed.

 

[liall]

Don't worry by 2050 I think India would see what 2 billion looks like.



Yea, chinese escaping to India, lol. They are mostly there for business or as contract workers. India is not one of the places Chinese go to, make your per capita 2-3 times ours we may think about it.

it wont go to 2 billion it will stabilise at around 1.5-1.6 billion. I don't know why you seem so butt hurt though.

 

[Raphael]

I welcome you to encourage your government to stop all kinds of human trafficking. chinese gangs are good at.

Problems rooted in economics cannot be solved by heavy-handed regulatory tactics alone. Just like the US government is finding it very hard to effectively prosecute the 'War on Drugs' no matter how many billions they've thrown at the problem. The VN government has a responsibility to provide Viet women with education and (legitimate) economic opportunities so they don't have to resort to foreign husbands. Maybe all that energy spent on inflaming problems in the South China Sea would be better spent on focusing on social problems and improving equality between the sexes.

 

[Edison Chen]

I don't think so. China is paradise, you are rich man too, and you do an Auditing for some company, you are should be paid extra money for good auditing report.

I would like to borrow from you a little money to help Vietnamese H'mong kid , she is 14 year old, but she is trafficked to China, she call for help to turn home in Vietnam.

Here is her home address in Vietnam and name of father and mother.

I tried to check this weibo out just know, I find that this news was about one and a half years ago, many police on the internet had noticed her and assisted her. I hope she is fine now.

Ha Ha Ha ! My father doesn't even know I dated a Kankukojin (Korean) girl before...

I hear from my friends that are dating South East Asian girls that their partners are very affectionate, loving, and also, spicy. I've never dated a Southeastern girl before, but, I'm open to it. How about you Ed? Only Chinese girls for you?

Nihonjin, what do you mean by "only", is this some sarcasm?

 

[Aepsilons]

Nihonjin, what do you mean by "only", is this some sarcasm?

Ha Ha Ha Ha! Just saying --- its good to try the different flavors of the ice cream store. LOL!

How will we know what Vanilla tastes like if we only eat Strawberry flavored ? ......'

 

[cnleio]

Vietnam export their women/girls to china, so many Vietnamese women/girls left in GuangXi province. The RMB cann buy everything in border trades even Vietnamese wife. maybe girls from poor North Vietnam love RMB more than VN. Just ask @BoQ77 i remember his one trade partner doing such business. If those twenty Vietnamese girls willing to marrage to Chinese husband coz money,sell&buy is fair to each other.

 

[ComradeNam]

Vietnam and China both have a gender imbalance problem, more male than female. Some Chinese men solve this problem by seeking foreign bride.

You said VN male don't go seek foreign bride like in Cambodia or Laos. So how do these Viets deal with the girl shortage problem? they just become gay with each other?

Vietnamese gender males over females are not excessive imbalance compare with Asian countries with heavy Chinese influence such as Korea, Taiwan, China which favor son over daughter.

Each family in Vietnam they only need one male, to keep the last name, the rest members does not matter if they are all females. IRemember Vietnam does not have 1 child policy like China. They can have as many as babies as they can.

The shortage of females in Vietnam is not excessive to cause Viet men seek for foreign wives.

Most Viet women refer to marry either Viet men or white men as they perceive white men is superior. Viet women don't like SEA countries, they don't like Chinese, Taiwanese, Korean.

The brides that marry Chinese, Taiwanese, Korean. they want to escape economic hardship by marrying rich man to help their family. These girls came from poor rural. Many of rural girls were fooled to traffic to China as wives.

Taiwanese, Korean can't get girls in city, from decent family. Chinese can never touch them as Chinese are poorer than Taiwanese and Korean, thus tradition Vietnamese don't like Chinese, marry Chinese is more like shame to the family of wealthy.

 

[Viet]

Vietnam export their women/girls to china, so many Vietnamese women/girls left in GuangXi province. The RMB cann buy everything in border trades even Vietnamese wife. maybe girls from poor North Vietnam love RMB more than VN. Just ask @BoQ77 i remember his one trade partner doing such business. If those twenty Vietnamese girls willing to marrage to Chinese husband coz money,sell&buy is fair to each other.

So you claim viet brides can be bought like apple or orange in supermarket? Vietnam exports girls?
What a crazy thought.

I believe delusional chinese men are slowing getting mad.

 

[cnleio]

So you claim viet brides can be bought like apple or orange in supermarket? Vietnam exports girls?
What a crazy thought.

I believe delusional chinese men are slowing getting mad.

it looks u still dont know where the problem come from,LOL.
the Vietnamese seller & Chinese buyer, ur ppl who take girls out vietnam and sell them r much more disgracing than Chinese man.When Vietnamese from poor NV set price for ur girls,they also sell ur dignity & their body for the money. So where the problem, if they have other good way for living inside north vietnam.