To be honest the core of your argument is "(some of)West=old=mainstream= Not progressive/ incorrect".
My take is simple. Not everything new is progressive or correct or for the lack of word 'better'.
For instance, I am all in to take a new for of payment which is embedded in my watch and does not asks me pin for small amount and i can tap and pay. Only if it is more than a particular amount, the reader asks me to enter pin. I will take it over a credit card or debit card in my wallet any day. In comparison, the phone payment that I hear all day along seems stupid to me. You unlock your phone and focus your camera, hold it still to pay, tap on screen to pay. Not to mention you bind your phone battery with your payment ability. Now thats what I call an 'Anti-Solution' : Something that looks like a better solution but actually it is worse than an existing solution.
Also for tracking children, I will like to have a solution where only a Parent can track their child till the age of say 10 years or till the child wishes. I will not like my child's school or anyone else to be even aware or be able to track my child. If I wish or my child wishes, they should be able to opt out of tracking completely. Its simple, if my child suffers a terrible fate whose skin is in the game? I bet it is mine and my child's. Will any particular beaurocrat will be hanged if something bad happens to my child? Unlikely. So why do I trust them with sensitive information about my child's safety. They have no skin in this game. Specially if I do not know who individually they are and I don't get a choice in picking them or vetting them.
Lastly, I don't believe in this naivety of "Government being a gentle parent and head of family'. Its simple baloney. Especially with a government which you cann't remove from power.
What you said is justified, but what I said is justified too.
The angle of view is different, the environment is different, so the idea is different. Our government is different from your government. It is very different. You can't understand it. . . . What you said makes sense, and what the West says is justified, but your (western people‘s )biggest mistake is to completely look at other people's things with your own eyes, relying entirely on your own malicious interpretation, which is why you are depraved and wage war everywhere.
You can't see the payment method. . . When the train just came out, it was not faster than the horse. When the Chinese Song Dynasty invented banknotes, many people were reluctant to use it. . . The reason for China’s backwardness is also because of this kind of psychology. The mentality is too old to accept new things. It is only willing to watch old movies, old TV, old songs, and old friends. . . I understand your thoughts, and they are also common in the West. Now you are also very strong and rich, but after all, you are just the rich and old, and how to be beautiful, is also dying.
In fact, your comments and thoughts are very negative for China, but I don't mind at all(or even a little happy). It is your negative opinion that hinders your own progress. . . If one day your views on China are positive, it means that the West has progressed and moved forward. . . According to the experience of the Qing Dynasty, as long as people are old and fallen, it is very difficult to rejuvenate and work hard, because the fall of the country is a holistic fall, it is universal, and the people and the government fall together.