Yes, it is.
I was on two jets: F-111E (Upper Heyford) and F-16A/B/C/D (MacDill).
As in every engineering endeavor, there is always an overhead, a 'margin of error', some 'wiggle room', some 'flex'. Call it whatever you want.
But in aviation, mass and weight matters more than most engineering endeavors. In flight, weight is a penalty. That amount of 'overhead' or 'margin' is even more scrutinized at the conceptual level, meaning even before the jet's design was put on paper.
A jet fighter, a cargo, a bomber, is no different than an airliner. In fact, in the military, aesthetics is irrelevant.
This is what the interior of C-5 looks like...
Look at the 'ceiling' over the troops. You can see exposed aircraft components. Electrical conduits and even exposed wiring cablings, ducts, and insulation. Nothing covering them.
A jet fighter is no different. In fact, a jet fighter is even structurally more austere than any other aircraft design.
An aircraft is mostly empty space.
I am not going to get into a pointless debate on which jet is heavier. I am only pointing out the flaw in your argument that just because the J-20's empty weight
MAYBE less than the F-22, somehow that translated into a more 'advanced' airframe design.
You want to be patriotic ? Fine. I have no problems with that. But do not strain logic in cheerleading for China.