Are we sure bro? In 65 years we had 3 full wars, 2 limited wars, 3 decade long insurgency and cross-border terrorism, Parliament attack, 26/11 Mumbai attack, and numerous border skirmishes; are you really sure we are not at war?
I strongly believe we are wasting our time & energy in all these peace-talk and goodwill gestures; nothing’s going to come out of it. Just think, the most powerful & resourceful entity in Pakistan is the Pakistani military establishment along with ISI, and they got into such an elevated position because of the enmity with India. Permanent enmity with India is in their own interest, they will sabotage each & every effort of Indo-Pak peace & friendship. We are chasing el-dorado here.
BSF shouldn't have exchanged sweets, at least to show respect to their fallen comrades.