You know, there was a recent news that a whole village was denounced as kaafir by a local Mulla in a UP village after they attended a prayer for a dead person led by a Sufi!
There are many in the Islamic faith (especially the Wahabi/Deobandi types) who think the followers of Sufis are kaafirs. That they are in opposition to the basic tenets of Islam.
If that is true, were you betrayed? You were converted by showing something that was never true to begin with.
BTW, don't fool yourself about the hierarchy in Islam. What is Ashraf and Ajlaf then? Why the superior status for Syeds and Arabs? Even if you deny it, it won't matter. Otherwise why would millions in Pakistan try to be fake Arabs?
P.S.: The Mulla also declared the relations between all married couples of the village as ZINA (never ceases to amaze me, this obsession with fu**ing) and all of them had to marry again.