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Banning someone or some thing is never the answer. It is an indication of your weakness and inability to handle or face that someone or some thing head on, direct, eye to eye, face to face.
I do believe there is no place for abusive or low class discourse on an internet forum, as in real life.
But aside from that, one needs to learn to live with the fact that you cannot and will not be liked by everyone.
Not yourself. Not your country. Not your faith. Not your culture or your race or ethnicity or sect.
Banning that person does not stop his or her dislike.
I remember in the old days one of the senior respected Pakistani members (I cannot recall now whether it was Asim or Muse or Oscar or Niaz someone else) had counseled the then Pakistani young guns. Who had similarly been grumbling and wondering why they had to put up with Indian presence on what they saw as "their" forum.
The advice I still remember. PDF is there to teach you how to engage with your foe on an international stage. With words and structured arguments and in the clear light of lucid thought and logic. Not jingoism and hatred and abusive low level discourse that not only discredits you, but the country and people you represent.
I've been away for some time now. And I must admit I am pretty aghast at returning and openly finding the ch*a word being freely used here. Cannot imagine the same in the old days.
I do believe there is no place for abusive or low class discourse on an internet forum, as in real life.
But aside from that, one needs to learn to live with the fact that you cannot and will not be liked by everyone.
Not yourself. Not your country. Not your faith. Not your culture or your race or ethnicity or sect.
Banning that person does not stop his or her dislike.
I remember in the old days one of the senior respected Pakistani members (I cannot recall now whether it was Asim or Muse or Oscar or Niaz someone else) had counseled the then Pakistani young guns. Who had similarly been grumbling and wondering why they had to put up with Indian presence on what they saw as "their" forum.
The advice I still remember. PDF is there to teach you how to engage with your foe on an international stage. With words and structured arguments and in the clear light of lucid thought and logic. Not jingoism and hatred and abusive low level discourse that not only discredits you, but the country and people you represent.
I've been away for some time now. And I must admit I am pretty aghast at returning and openly finding the ch*a word being freely used here. Cannot imagine the same in the old days.