Bro, the fact is we (both) have dehumanised each other to a serious extent.
A Manchester and photo of a small girl shakes us.
But when we hear of strikes in each others countries, unless it is Big like a Mumbai or an APS, we "accept" it, feel momentarily sorry, and move on.
We do not see each other as individual human beings. As people.
Just as some amorphous "beings" .... Called Pakistanis .... Or Indians.
Not someone's father or brother or son .... Or someone's mother or daughter or sister.
It is the truth.