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A promise to girls: It is time we came together and took concrete action to end the grave injustice of child marriage

Today is our human family's first-ever International Day of the Girl.

This is a day to celebrate the fact that it is girls who will change the world; that the empowerment of girls holds the key to development and security for families, communities and societies worldwide. It also re-cognises the discrimination and violence that girls disproportionately endure - and it is especially important that one of the cruellest hardships to befall girls, child marriage, should be the UN's chosen theme for this inaugural day.

The marriage of adolescent girls, sometimes to much older men, sums up much of the harm, injustice and stolen potential that afflict so many girls around the world.

Ten million girls under the age of 18 are married off every year with little or no say in the matter. That's 100 million girls in the next decade. Their parents may feel they are doing the right thing to protect their daughters, but in reality these brides will be vulnerable to ill health, violence, inadequate education and poverty - as will their children.

Imagine, instead, the wonderful force we would unleash if these girls could be spared such a life.

They would be more likely to stay in school. Studies have shown that when girls stay longer in primary school, they earn wages up to 10 to 20% higher in their adult lives. As they get older, the differences in earnings are even more encouraging: for every extra year in secondary school, they can earn up to 25% more in adulthood.

These girls would also be more likely to be healthy, and less likely to contract diseases such as HIV/AIDS than married girls of the same age. And when these girls grow up and eventually start families of their own, we know that these women won't let their daughters marry as children. Child marriage could cease to exist with their generation.

Today, we have the opportu-nity to enshrine such a global pledge to end child marriage.

The Millennium Development Goals (MDGs), international targets set at the turn of the century, proved it was possible to think, and to act, on the largest of scales: halving extreme poverty, halting the spread of HIV/AIDS and providing universal primary education are some of its objectives, all by the target date of 2015. Unlike many international commitments, the MDGs are still remembered years later, and helped galvanise unprecedented efforts by governments.

But this progress will be stunted if we fail to address injustices as staggering, persistent and widespread as child marriage. As our leaders begin the process of preparing new development goals to succeed the MDGs, the persistence of child marriage should be seen as one of the major barriers to the well-being of our human family.

Too often, child marriage is justified on the basis of custom or tradition. While traditions often serve to bind societies together, we also want to point out that traditions are man-made. If we learn that they are harmful, we should change them.

In our travels as Elders - a group of independent leaders working for peace, justice and human rights - in Asia and Africa, we have met brave girls and boys who do not hesitate to stand up to tradition and say no to child marriage. In Bihar, a state where nearly 70% of girls marry before they turn 18 (contrary to national law), we met admirable young people who were signing pledges not to marry before 18. In Amhara, a region in northern Ethiopia, where the most common age for a girl to marry is 12, we visited girls who participated in workshops to discuss collectively the benefits of ending child marriage.

These meetings convinced us that there is a real need to connect groups around the world, enable them to work together and help to end this practice. This led to the creation, last year, of Girls Not Brides, a global partnership of organisations dedicated to stopping the practice, with a membership now growing in the hundreds.

We believe that an international consensus on the need to end child marriage is within sight. When we created Girls Not Brides in 2011, we committed to ending child marriage in one generation. Why not, then, pledge the elimination of this harmful practice by 2030?

Development targets to improve global health, education and gender equality would also be tackled by a pledge to end this devastating practice. And generation after generation, girls would be able to fulfil their potential and bless their daughters to do the same.

On this inaugural Day of the Girl, we call on the international community to promise a different life to those girls - a life of their choosing.
 
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Hmm...These people...Western people are slightly twisted...They propose this when MOST of their young ladies go out with their teachers of men who can be called daddy!

I am not sure which is worse, being an older man's mistress as in the West or being his wife as in the East....All in all it should be stopped ESPECIALLY if it is AGAINST the child/ young woman's wills..
 
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Hmm...These people...Western people are slightly twisted...They propose this when MOST of their young ladies go out with their teachers of men who can be called daddy!

I am not sure which is worse, being an older man's mistress as in the West or being his wife as in the East....All in all it should be stopped ESPECIALLY if it is AGAINST the child/ young woman's wills..

I'm uncertain in which part of the UK or the west , "most young ladies go out with their teachers" as you claim. In any event it is illegal and the teachers can be arrested.

As for your "against the child/ young woman's wills" as you state, it is internationally recognised that a minor is incapable of making an informed decision including and especially when it comes to the issue of marriage. If any nation is to prosper then it needs to protect children's rights and importantly, female children.
 
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I kid, ladies. Powerpuff n all that jazz!!!
 
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I'm uncertain in which part of the UK or the west , "most young ladies go out with their teachers" as you claim. In any event it is illegal and the teachers can be arrested.

Well it is illegal, BUT does anyone care? Drunk driving is also illegal but still we get cases every now and then, right?

I am not talking about the law...I am talking about WHAT HAPPENS not WHAT is SUPPOSED to be!

As for your "against the child/ young woman's wills" as you state, it is internationally recognised that a minor is incapable of making an informed decision including and especially when it comes to the issue of marriage. If any nation is to prosper then it needs to protect children's rights and importantly, female children.

I am not sure what to say of this...Starting to doubt you read Ajtr's or my post...

I just gave my opinion on the post based on WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENS I did not add something new...

Anyway, glad to know you are on the wavelength :)
 
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Well it is illegal, BUT does anyone care? Drunk driving is also illegal but still we get cases every now and then, right?

I am not talking about the law...I am talking about WHAT HAPPENS not WHAT is SUPPOSED to be!



I am not sure what to say of this...Starting to doubt you read Ajtr's or my post...

I just gave my opinion on the post based on WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENS I did not add something new...

Anyway, glad to know you are on the wavelength :)

You cannot stop girls from doing what they want. Most teenagers here are way smarter (aware of the sitution) than I was.
Also, how is it related to the post?
 
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