Thats not possible. Modernity is in direct opposition to tradition. Modernity refers to cultural traits such as gender/racial equality, economic mobility, emphasis on merit over birth, the idea that people take control of their own destiny and the emphasis on science over faith. It has nothing to do with the clothes you wear or even what specific policies you support.
Easy example: Why do Chinese have the phenomena of "leftover men/women", i.e. seeing people who haven't married by age 30 as having a problem? Western culture is "who cares when they marry", you have people in 40's still having "boyfriends and girlfriends".
The most important part of a culture is the language. English is in absolutely no way threatening to Chinese culture, nor is the internet, because Chinese language and software dominates the Chinese internet. Meanwhile English has already replaced several smaller Indian languages and may one day even replace Hindi and Tamil, and India will become the largest English speaking nation in the world, because Indian internet uses fully Western software.