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Never Say Goodbye
Lt Col Tahir Mehmood
Here we meet another symbol of love, sacrifice and national pride. She is Mrs. Wajeeha Naveed Shaheed who talks passionately about Captain Naveed Shaheed while holding tightly and caressing her one and half year only daughter, Nawal Naveed. She does not let off Nawal out of sight for a moment because this is the most precious gift of Captain Naveed Shaheed. Captain Naveeds helicopter crashed around Wana on 6th February 2008 and he embraced Shahadat while on duty and actively fighting the war against terrorists. Captain Naveed got commission in Pakistan Army in 2001 and later joined Army Aviation and became helicopter pilot in 2005. Their short lived marriage took place on 17th March 2007. Though we spent very less time together i.e., only ten and half months, but I have an unending treasure of loving memories of the Shaheed. We were more like friends and always enjoyed moments spent together. He was always considerate, mild and caring in his attitude.
Naveed had such a humble, accommodating and respectful persona that I sometime commented that he more represents a man of good old times than a present day man of materialistic moorings. He would just smile on follies or remained quiet but never chide any one. Forgiveness was his virtue and symbol. He often mentioned that one should never hurt others as life is short and uncertain. The world should be taken as a temporary abode and one should prepare oneself for the life hereafter. Naveed was very regular in offering prayers and fond of Shahadat. This was his ardent desire. Whenever he would mention of his desire, I would tell him that life without him would be very difficult for me. But he prepared me for this. He made me participate in all his activities. He taught me even map marking for his flight missions or preparation of power point slides for his assignments. He was not only my husband but my mentor, my tutor and my Hero, shares proud Wajeeha with restrained emotions, hold out tears and unheard sobbing. Soldiers and their families pay a grand price for their Motherland.
We spent only 150 days together out of ten and half months marriage as being pilot he was often away on different flying missions. Naveed was a complete family man. During our stay at Quetta, we often went to Hana Lake and other scenic places. Biryani was his favourite dish and we used to prepare it in such quantity that people often thought that we were making arrangements for guests. He had a strange habit of many times tasting the food while it was being prepared. In the process, he would consume half of his meal. He would often cut the vegetables in an unnoticed manner and than would come to me with a smile on his lips and tell me that food was ready for cooking. While I was preparing it, he would SMS me few couplets from his favourite poetry. Late Parveen Shakir was his favourite poetess recalls Wajeeha.
Nawal was only 28 days old once Naveed embraced Shahadat. She was borne on 8th January 2009. He was absolutely joyful on her birth. He offered thanksgiving Nawafal on her birth and then uttered Azan in her ears himself. He used to love her a lot. He wanted to make her a Hafiz-e-Quran and then a football player. He was a proud father. Nawal was six months old once she started uttering the word Papa. Now whenever some visitor comes to our house, she brings Naveeds picture to him and says, My papa. She has also learnt to salute her Papas picture. When some helicopter fly over our home, I tell her that her Papa would come to her one day flying a Helicopter. She is only one and half year old; does not understand much but just gets quiet and waits with a hope in her eyes whenever she hears the sound of a helicopter. Nawal resembles Naveed too much. I know Nawal would miss her Papa too much once she would start going to school. She would look for her Papa to carry her on his shoulders and buy her gifts on her birthday or on her achievements. I know she would weep bitterly once she will leave the house on her marriage. Who would get her Papa to say her goodbye amidst prayers and assurance? Now, I pledge with Naveed that though difficult, but I would raise her loving daughter according to his desires. I would be her Mama and Papa. I would remember Naveed in Nawal and never say him goodbye....... Tears, sobbing, pledge and national pride...... all this is left with soldiers and their families in toiling days and nights in this long lonely journey of life......
You would be here
Amidst the falling tears
Even once we will be gone
You will be here as a national treasure
We may weep, we may cry
But we would never say Goodbye
You soldiers, You are our Pride