14-year-old schoolboy commits suicide in Peshawar over marriage refusal

[Hell hound]

Zaida to nahi hoi. :p bus name familiar h but Kabhi deakha nahi Itna forum pe so I don't know much about butt sahib. Gullo butt Ke to kujh nahi Lagte? :p
Ps: I'm kind of new member.

ajj kal humaey bhi kam hi nazar a rahay hain .warna forum pay koi asa banda nahi tha jis ka butt sahib say mazak na ho
sahat say to gulu butt kay reshtadr to nahi lagtay thay (gullu butt kafi patla hay butt sahib kay agay) baqi agay haqiqat ya to butt sahib ko malom hay ya gullu butt ko.

 

[Moonlight]

@Armstrong
Apaye duso gay key mein dasaan

Aap Batao ya Wo Mujhe inform Kar Dena. :p

ajj kal humaey bhi kam hi nazar a rahay hain .warna forum pay koi asa banda nahi tha jis ka butt sahib say mazak na ho
sahat say to gulu butt kay reshtadr to nahi lagtay thay (gullu butt kafi patla hay butt sahib kay agay) baqi agay haqiqat ya to butt sahib ko malom hay ya gullu butt ko.

Butt hue to patla hue ? Phir Matlab Sahy wale butt Hain. :p
Matlab sheikh shaib Ke competitor Hain :p

 

[That Guy]

If it 'probably' happened then as per your standard your ancestors were pedophiles.

But I won't insult my grandparents or great grandparents. They did this. The whole world, even non-Muslims, did this and was completely normal all through out history except in the past century.

Just because we no longer want to marry at young age does not mean we should insult and denigrate a ex-custom of our culture and something which no religion ever prohibited.

What are you on about? Nowhere did I even bring morality into this. I'm talking about practicality, it just seems stupid to just marry off kids who're still very much dependent on financial support from their parents. It may have made sense in the past, but it makes little sense in today's world.

I don't understand how you can make these leaping arguments.

bad parenting and lack of counseling is the main reason, immediate measures should be taken like don't allow cell phone and internet (without guidance) until college. By doing that 80% cases of such nature you can reduce.

You'll end up making the generation tech illiterate. Besides, how are they going to monitor the use every kid using secure computers. If my friends and I could use homemade simple software to get past school censorship, what makes you think that won't happen again?

I understand what you're saying, but it is impractical. Personally I completely agree that it is bad parenting, as its better to educate our children about the birds and the bees, instead of waiting for them to figure it out on their own. This method has proven to reduce sexual encounters, rather than increase them.

 

[M.AsfandYar]

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Stealth nay pdf chor di aur butt sahab uk mein hain

Wth!!!
Who is going to cover National Day Parade then!!!!.

 

[Desert Fox]

Since you were saying, the kido wanted to keep it halal and if like suicided is halal too------so he went for this option.

How is suicide halal?

 

[Moonlight]

How is suicide halal?

You need to reread all your replies and then my replies to understand it, sir. Of course it's haram.

 

[Desert Fox]

You need to reread all your replies and then my replies to understand it, sir. Of course it's haram.

I did and i don't see how you can compare marriage with suicide. Unless you were being sarcastic, which i am very terrible at catching.

 

[I.R.A]

He's 14 and he wanted to get married? Why would he? I think these kids don't understand the whole package that mariage represents. If they did, they'd embrace the stag life. Drive motorcycles, travel to exotic places, take up an adventurous line of work, be a complete lunatic. Can't do these things when you're married kid.
Its not about just getting the girl. You got her, good, now what. I'll tell you what. You got responsibilities, pay the bills, get a house, get the groceries, pay for the car, take her shopping for things you can't afford and definitely don't need. Surprise, she's pregnant! And what does that mean for you? More responsibilities! Pay for her health care, get baby stuff, obsess over names, get into fights, almost get divorced over your preferred names. Kid's born now, pay for medicines, food, new stuff that's redundant every two weeks. Time for school, cough up more...
Its just going to keep going on. I'm not trying to portray marriage as some dismal dead end, I think you need to be at least past your midlife crisis before you can do that but if some kid out there thinks that marriage is easy and you can manage a married life as a 7th class ka bacha, you need to give yourself a whack on the head and realize what you're fully, the commitment you're getting into.

Aiiiii dil say nikli hy yeh naseehat, yeh lulooo parsad kya jany pamper aur baby wipes ki tension sary gham bhula daiti hy . After marriage banday baychary ki to apni zindagi rehti he nahi

On a serious note education system of Pakistan needs some drastic changes and measures. If it was me I would keep co education till 6th or 7th grade then boys go to boarding institutions similar to cadet colleges and girls go separate to their institutions. Once they are done with their school education (12th grade) then they can have combined classes in universities. Adopting such approach would make these immature children mentally tough, disciplined and mature, who would see each other as competition rather than thinking of each other as layla majnu or heer ranjah.

 

[Moonlight]

I did and i don't see how you can compare marriage with suicide. Unless you were being sarcastic, which i am very terrible at catching.

No I'm not being sarcastic at any point. I'm repeating myself just to make it clear to you. Since you said, the kid wanted to keep it halal and asked for marriage at just age of 14, rather doing anything haram and defended him in this sense. My reply was, like suiciding is halal so he did it.
His staying away from fitna and haram and asking for marriage at early age makes no difference if he did the sin of suiciding which is haram too.
May Allah forgives this little being.