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This is for all the single blokes out there looking to get hitched sooner or later. ![Wink ;) ;)](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/wink.gif)
Those living in the west: Would you go back home to get married in Pakistan or would you simply find a girl and get married in your home countries i.e. UK, US, Canada?
Those living in Pakistan: Would you consider marrying a Pakistani girl born/raised abroad or would you rather marry one in the country?
The married folks can chip in their 50 cents experience.![Tongue :P :P](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.gif)
Without going into complicated territories of class, family structure, religiosity and yadda yadda yadda etc., Let's do a basic comparison:
Pakistani Born/Raised Girls: Cons
Pros:
- Sincere wives with their husbands
- Do the basic chores such as cooking, cleaning, and dishes
- Like Making babies, lots of them, (hence the massive increase in birthrates)
- Morally upright and culturally aware
- Willing to live with in-laws despite of being at odds with them
- Willing to sacrifice for her husband and less demanding of worldly things
- Understands what "honour" stands for
- Lower divorce rates
Cons
- Major Drama expected (Bollywood style)
- Nagging issues
- Bollywood phobia
- No idea of love/romance due to inexperience (You must be willing to teach her ALL that or just make it somehow work together
)
- No idea what personal physical maintenance means ( don't expet it 6 months into the marriage) she might gain 50 lbs 3 months into marriage lol
AMERICAN Born/Raised Girls:
Pros
- Growing up in America has def taught her one thing: how to make love
- Physically being fit is of paramount importance, understands how important it is to the husband
- No major drama expected: Gear up for in-your-face attitude
- Hates Bollywood movies and think they're stupid and make no sense
- Autonomous Working women require less financial expectations
- Make babies, but only 2 in a life time lol
Cons
- Morally/religiously weaker standards
- Unlikely understand what izzat/ghairat really entail
- Weak Cooking and cleaning and dishes skills (50% expected from your side)
- Children are more like a burden
- Living with in-laws? NEVER!! :p
Aight. Let the battles begin.![Police :police: :police:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cute/police.gif)
![Wink ;) ;)](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/wink.gif)
Those living in the west: Would you go back home to get married in Pakistan or would you simply find a girl and get married in your home countries i.e. UK, US, Canada?
Those living in Pakistan: Would you consider marrying a Pakistani girl born/raised abroad or would you rather marry one in the country?
The married folks can chip in their 50 cents experience.
![Tongue :P :P](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.gif)
Without going into complicated territories of class, family structure, religiosity and yadda yadda yadda etc., Let's do a basic comparison:
Pakistani Born/Raised Girls: Cons
Pros:
- Sincere wives with their husbands
- Do the basic chores such as cooking, cleaning, and dishes
- Like Making babies, lots of them, (hence the massive increase in birthrates)
- Morally upright and culturally aware
- Willing to live with in-laws despite of being at odds with them
- Willing to sacrifice for her husband and less demanding of worldly things
- Understands what "honour" stands for
- Lower divorce rates
Cons
- Major Drama expected (Bollywood style)
- Nagging issues
- Bollywood phobia
- No idea of love/romance due to inexperience (You must be willing to teach her ALL that or just make it somehow work together
![Wink ;) ;)](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/wink.gif)
- No idea what personal physical maintenance means ( don't expet it 6 months into the marriage) she might gain 50 lbs 3 months into marriage lol
AMERICAN Born/Raised Girls:
Pros
- Growing up in America has def taught her one thing: how to make love
- Physically being fit is of paramount importance, understands how important it is to the husband
- No major drama expected: Gear up for in-your-face attitude
- Hates Bollywood movies and think they're stupid and make no sense
- Autonomous Working women require less financial expectations
- Make babies, but only 2 in a life time lol
Cons
- Morally/religiously weaker standards
- Unlikely understand what izzat/ghairat really entail
- Weak Cooking and cleaning and dishes skills (50% expected from your side)
- Children are more like a burden
- Living with in-laws? NEVER!! :p
Aight. Let the battles begin.
![Police :police: :police:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cute/police.gif)