Pakistani Girls vs American Girls

[TruthSeeker]

Nice to hear that from you sir.
Will you be kind enough to tell me your veiws about girlz from TENNESSEE.I know ne yorkers are wild.

My brother lives in Tennessee and raised two girls (now both married) so I am well familiar with the Tennessee personality. They are a bit less sophisticated in their speech patterns (twangy accent) than Virginia girls and not many are from Pakistan or South Asia. They tend to have less cosmopolitan experiences, like maybe never having gone to an Indian, let alone a Pakistani, restaurant. They are raised, however, to say Yes, Sir! and Yes, Ma'am! (i.e. to be polite and respectful), so that's a plus. Of course my brothers daughters were very sweet. Both have 3 children now. One is a lawyer as well and the other is a PhD Chemist (as is my brother). My brothers town in Tennessee was the site of a large chemical plant and company with a good-sized R&D operation. So there were a few South Asian PhD's in chemistry and medicine there. But, because the Pakistani-American population is so small, I think Tennessee Pakistani-American girls are very rare. OTOH, if you find one she might also be easier to impress than the Virginia suburban ones who have gone to Fairfax County or Arlington County schools.....

 

[Captain03]

Well, as an American born and raised, I'm not sure you Pakistani guys could handle a pure-bred American wife. Now the ones from the South, like my native Virginia, seem softer than the Yankee girls from New York, etc.; BUT, all American girls will have too much independence of mind compared to a Pakistani girl. Now, I think the best might be a Pakistani-American girl raised in the South. Such a girl would have been imbued with a nice combination of traditional Pakistani values as well as a softer version of American values. There are a number of such beautiful Pakistan-American girls who are being raised in the Virginia suburbs of Washington, DC!

it depends on what u call independence
in western civilization independence means to make all your own decisions etc and take charge of your life
but when it comes to marriage you can't do that
both the man and the woman have to give up certain rights they had before in order to make the marriage successful and healthy
most westerners don't understand that and that is why most western marriages are utter failures
now i'm not saying eastern marriages are perfect cause their not, but atleast we have the understanding of a successful and healthy marriage; which the western civilization lacks

 

[Abu Zolfiqar]

Well, as an American born and raised, I'm not sure you Pakistani guys could handle a pure-bred American wife. Now the ones from the South, like my native Virginia, seem softer than the Yankee girls from New York, etc.; BUT, all American girls will have too much independence of mind compared to a Pakistani girl. Now, I think the best might be a Pakistani-American girl raised in the South. Such a girl would have been imbued with a nice combination of traditional Pakistani values as well as a softer version of American values. There are a number of such beautiful Pakistan-American girls who are being raised in the Virginia suburbs of Washington, DC!

i like the Yankee girls......especially the New Jersey/New York walas.

they are doing a lot to promote Pakistani culture, and they are well educated --at least ones i met.


As for Virginia - yes many Pakistanis there. They have many Pakistani and Afghans also, especially in Alexandria.

 

[TruthSeeker]

both the man and the woman have to give up certain rights they had before in order to make the marriage successful and healthy
most westerners don't understand that and that is why most western marriages are utter failures

Captain03, I would have thought just the opposite. Perhaps I am wrong in my impressions, but i have thought that a Pakistani-raised woman would acquiesce to her husbands decisions and not expect to have any real input herself. By "independent" I merely meant that the American-trained woman will "think" she has a say in important family decisions apart from what her husband thinks. I thought that this would be the difficult aspect for a Pakistani-raised husband in dealing with an American-raised wife. If I am misguided in this, then I am glad. Is the same true of a Saudi Arabian husband???

 

[Kompromat]

i think all marriage should be illegal

Khuda ka khoffff karen SIRRRRR

 

[Abu Zolfiqar]

marriage is over-rated.....

in times of need, go to Nathia Gully and take a jeep up to the hill stations and do barbecue.


but maybe i'm still young "immature" and ultra-cynical

Khuda ka khoffff karen SIRRRRR

dont worry...i get it all the time

 

[Kompromat]

Here is My opinion.

1 Depends on what you need!

If you just need to have a good time or you follow " chewing gum theory" WEST!!!

2: If you want to live " happily married ever after " Pakistan. All of those pros are even less i guess there is a lot more to it depending what sort of Pakistani girl you are married with , 90% it works because both can develop understanding if don't have other things in mind

IMO , i would never EVER get married here( Australia or any western Country ) at any cost!
i would prefer Pakistani / Arabic / or any girl from Those Muslim Russian states , i have found them well mannered and well raised same as Pakistani girls.

BUT Pakistani girls still stand on no 1 on my hit list

 

[Kompromat]

marriage is over-rated.....

in times of need, go to Nathia Gully and take a jeep up to the hill stations and do barbecue.


but maybe i'm still young "immature" and ultra-cynical





dont worry...i get it all the time

I Didn't get it sir

 

[Captain03]

Captain03, I would have thought just the opposite. Perhaps I am wrong in my impressions, but i have thought that a Pakistani-raised woman would acquiesce to her husbands decisions and not expect to have any real input herself. By "independent" I merely meant that the American-trained woman will "think" she has a say in important family decisions apart from what her husband thinks. I thought that this would be the difficult aspect for a Pakistani-raised husband in dealing with an American-raised wife. If I am misguided in this, then I am glad. Is the same true of a Saudi Arabian husband???

i don't know about the arab's but pakistan is very different from your idea of it
in a pakistani family [from what i have seen] the woman leads the minor decisions in the house because she takes care of it and runs it
and when the big decisions have to be made the man and women usually go through talks to see what's better for the family
and in some families that is not the case [in most rural places men have full authority] but in most pakistani families it is

 

[K^se]

-American girls are hott and your girls aren't

-So get PZZED, if you're going to put some ignorant comments of a list of pro and cons and it all goes in one way of bashing us.. I'ma do the same ignorant ****.

-I am South Asian well partly I hate you all..

 

[K^se]

yeah, I would go into detail but I dont want to get banned by baised moderators.. Thankx

 

[Shattered]

So like i have met some asian girl when i went on holidays in dubi but yea for me nothing beats a brtish women preferbly my gf i'll marry her =P.

 

[Captain03]

-American girls are hott and your girls aren't

-So get PZZED, if you're going to put some ignorant comments of a list of pro and cons and it all goes in one way of bashing us.. I'ma do the same ignorant ****.

-I am South Asian well partly I hate you all..

idiot

 

[illuminatus]

yeah, I would go into detail but I dont want to get banned by baised moderators.. Thankx

What more details could we possibly need? It seems you have had a pretty bad upbringing if you don't mind me saying so. Why do you always have to play the victim? Why do you always have to interpret things the wrong way? Why do you always have to show that you're superior to others? Above all, why do you always have to open your mouth before using your head?

 

[Shattered]

-American girls are hott and your girls aren't

-So get PZZED, if you're going to put some ignorant comments of a list of pro and cons and it all goes in one way of bashing us.. I'ma do the same ignorant ****.

-I am South Asian well partly I hate you all..

So your asian and you hate pak people aren't you being a hypocryet =P.