there are many Muslim male and female athlete who refused to shake hands after their win with the person giving them medal or award, they sign up for sports not to shake hands . Civility dictates a lot of things hand shake is very low on the list, I have no problem with shaking hands with opposite gender but if someone refuses to do so then i wont make them suffer the consequences for that, if that person is qualified and good human being than he should be given a chance to live his life in where ever he wants to ..