How to deal with nosy relatives?

[Azadkashmir]

if you bring azad k mangater even after about 15 years their backward mentality dont change and still dont speak English. I just had an argument for 30 mins, that how can we be related to Arabs. we have diff DNA even when I said I can provide sources but as typical backward Pakistani my uncle resorts to personal insults or cheap score by saying things like oh i got more than you, you don't pay tax, you only work few days (reason due to coronavirus )even though I do pay tax.
I explain million times I had an accident and due to injury I couldn't work due bedridden but mangater from the hills won't understand. this the mentality of our dangar ppl.

you cant tame them I personally think they jealous ppl. if you have immigrant uncles keep away they sell you out quick and cheap remarks.

Indians will have a field day playing wit this lot in Azad k.

 

[Safriz]

People can be opinionated and won't budge.
That doesn't mean they hate you or anyone due to their opinion.

 

[El Sidd]

@Azadkashmir

Money flows freely in Pakistan. Overseas Pakistanis have failed to provide the true picture of what it is like living abroad.

Sometimes people be stubborn for the sake of it.

Relax and just sleep on it

 

[halupridol]

Well,,, the prudent thing to do is to evaluate the mental capabilities of the one u r arguing with.
Its useless to argue with dumb ppl.
It's better to give thm the sense of victory n move on.

 

[Azadkashmir]

People can be opinionated and won't budge.
That doesn't mean they hate you or anyone due to their opinion.

Uncle of mine says what you have achieved here in Uk I say I got two degrees and I worked very hard almost dying in pain I had spinal injury many years ago inshallah much better.
but these unappreciative ppl will say we don't accept its fake he says even though i offered to show photos, certificate even though this mangater dangarr cant read. you cant have intelligent debate but they resort personal insults.

I offer them sources references but they don't get it. never debate with dangars.

he sits in my car ashes on the floor and naswar spits i think fcuk it my mum brother but he is total wanker. he will try going thru my fone but i have it locked. they have no manners, they shout when they speak, they are embarrassing in the supermarket by behaving like jangli, if they pick up a product they pick it up like a criminal making ppl suspicious. They will sell you out. yet you explain as deep as you can to make them understand but they say you chatting
s h it. but these mangater will have samsung s9 phone even though they can't read but memorised pictures to navigate.

 

[Iltutmish]

@Azadkashmir

Money flows freely in Pakistan. Overseas Pakistanis have failed to provide the true picture of what it is like living abroad.

Thank you...

 

[Safriz]

Uncle of mine says what you have achieved here in Uk I say I got two degrees and I worked very hard almost dying in pain I had spinal injury many years ago inshallah much better.
but these unappreciative ppl will say we don't accept its fake he says even though i offered to show photos, certificate even though this mangater dangarr cant read. you cant have intelligent debate but they resort personal insults.

Tusi managator honday hou?
(Sorry , couldn't resist)

 

[ÇölKaplanı]

Do you have imigrant relatives that are low iq animals

Yeah, half of my relatives from my father's side are all low IQ animals, yet I agree with @Safriz on this one. They all have their own opinions as well like we do but that doesn't make them hate you

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

How different it is from Pakistan

Girls are more prettier maybe....

 

[VCheng]

What it is like living abroad? How different it is from Pakistan

To be honest, it is a harsh and hard life. Door key dhol suhaney.

 

[El Sidd]

What it is like living abroad? How different it is from Pakistan

You cannot have typical 1 earn 5 eat living outside Pakistan.
People think there is treasure at every rainbow end.

Payt hai ya grand canyon. Bharta hi nahi

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

Aisss ich mara ki kasoor aye??
Hehehe fight with pahariya uncle. Do you fight with your pahariyan mangater as well??

Uncle of mine says what you have achieved here in Uk I say I got two degrees and I worked very hard almost dying in pain I had spinal injury many years ago inshallah much better.
but these unappreciative ppl will say we don't accept its fake he says even though i offered to show photos, certificate even though this mangater dangarr cant read. you cant have intelligent debate but they resort personal insults.

 

[M.Bison]

Uncle of mine says what you have achieved here in Uk I say I got two degrees and I worked very hard almost dying in pain I had spinal injury many years ago inshallah much better.
but these unappreciative ppl will say we don't accept its fake he says even though i offered to show photos, certificate even though this mangater dangarr cant read. you cant have intelligent debate but they resort personal insults.

Dude, I know how you feel and I am glad you recovered. The issue is that our culture tries to use the age factor to insult younger people even though you might be right. It is taken as a slight if you try and correct older people. It is best to just not get into it with these old-timers. They will drain you of your emotional and mental energy. Just remember the saying Jawab eh jahila bashat kahmoshi.

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

God protect me. My family also wants to bring some paindoo girl from Lahore.

I'll cut ties with them if they force into an unwanted marriage.

 

[masterchief_mirza]

What it is like living abroad? How different it is from Pakistan

It is a magical wondrous place. The roads are lined with chocolate, while milk and honey flow through never ending streams running up to every doorstep. Beautiful forest nymphs deliver wine in open casks and gourds of ripe fruit every day such that every man may taste the goodness of western bounty. Provisions are limitless as economic systems have been declared obsolete by virtue of endless reserves of raw materials and fuels. There is no war, famine or disease. I could go on but you get the idea.