How to deal with nosy relatives?

[Ahmet Pasha]

Tusi managator honday hou?
(Sorry , couldn't resist)

What a pathetic attempt at Punjabi

 

[M.Bison]

God protect my family also wants to bring some paindoo girl from Lahore.

I'll cut ties with them if they force into an unwanted marriage.

Better to have a paindoo girl than to have a nice educated one that has been ringed out 4-5 times before marriage.

 

[Azadkashmir]

Why they think we are weak and they are strong even though they fight you by staring with eyes or slaps. i explain to my uncle here it is fist fight yet he be like mikki bu jaan mai mari ura.
he lived here 15 years has 3 kids but cant read or speak english but thinks he is better than me.
yet my degree they will devalue it, yes it true I did no get a job in it but I work in the care sector, which i am now going to do a diploma level 3 in this sector. you cant win these ppl by having a inteligent calm debate.

 

[Safriz]

What a pathetic attempt at Punjabi

this isn't Punjabi this is pahaari/Kashmiri ......

 

[Old School]

Many animals do have very high IQ and those animals are called 'Jahil'. Our country is being looted by high IQ Jahils. Educated Jahils are more dangerous for the society than the illiterate ones. I have known many illiterate people with great hearts and character.

 

[VCheng]

Why they think we are weak and they are strong even though they fight you by staring with eyes or slaps. i explain to my uncle here it is fist fight yet he be like mikki bu jaan mai mari ura.
he lived here 15 years has 3 kids but cant read or speak english but thinks he is better than me.
yet my degree they will devalue it, yes it true I did no get a job in it but I work in the care sector, which i am now going to do a diploma level 3 in this sector. you cant win these ppl by having a inteligent calm debate.

The best course of action is to prove them wrong: completing your education and getting a good job that makes you independent.

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

There's good girls here too
Not all those Pakistani girls are naik pakeeza virgins either. Pakistani underground parties and general perversion rife in Pak society could easily give chills to some Western folk.

Baki beghairti West mein bhi achi khasi hai.

Better to have a paindoo girl than to have a nice educated one that has been ringed out 4-5 times before marriage.

 

[M.Bison]

What it is like living abroad? How different it is from Pakistan

It depends on the lifestyle you want. It is pretty open and free-thinking but there are jahils everywhere.. Economic opportunities are there but they come at a cost. You have to work really hard to achieve something but probably wont be worth it at the end anyway. Won't have family like in Pakistan but again that depends on your values. People are fairly nice and can be non-judgemental.

 

[IQRA S.]

God protect me. My family also wants to bring some paindoo girl from Lahore.

I'll cut ties with them if they force into an unwanted marriage.

Paindu girls live in Lahore?

 

[Jungibaaz]

What it is like living abroad? How different it is from Pakistan

I know we overseas like to complain but bottom line is still that life outside is better. And I encourage Pakistanis to move abroad, there's nothing wrong in wanting better quality of life, you'll be able to contribute back to your country eventually if you succeed.

You will notice, less familial and societal baggage + more independence vs staying in Pakistan, the cost of this is hard work, and frankly coming back to Pakistan the contrast is stark. When I tell my family about my first professional job in London requiring me work 55 hours a week with a 1.5 hour commute each way, they thought I was grossly exaggerating. It's an opposite culture shock to be used to waking up for work in the early hours of the morning and coming back to find things only get going around midday. Though granted some of this is down to climate difference, and my work case was extreme even for avg professionals in the UK.

Also, in order to succeed abroad, it's very necessary to be educated, to chase a profession and adapt local culture (I'm not saying abandon your own). The kinds of people I've seen fail here are those without much ambition, didn't instill hard work and education in their kids, and lived in closeted communities that don't interact with wider society.

 

[M.Bison]

There's good girls here too
Not all those Pakistani girls are naik pakeeza virgins either. Pakistani underground parties and general perversion rife in Pak society could easily give chills to some Western folk.

Baki beghairti West mein bhi achi khasi hai.

lol. You right my dude but how would a paindoo girl know how to get to an underground party.. There is no underground in the pind.

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

Why they think we are weak and they are strong even though they fight you by staring with eyes or slaps. i explain to my uncle here it is fist fight yet he be like mikki bu jaan mai mari ura.
he lived here 15 years has 3 kids but cant read or speak english but thinks he is better than me.
yet my degree they will devalue it, yes it true I did no get a job in it but I work in the care sector, which i am now going to do a diploma level 3 in this sector. you cant win these ppl by having a inteligent calm debate.

Pakistani relatives are generally toxic and evil in that regard. I openly say to my relatives that when the Ottoman sultanate was being undermined by Zionist/Freemason/Illuminati conspiracies. The sultan was busy trying to protect the calipahte and his people but the women around him and his relatives were busy in their usual Star Plus scheming/plotting against each other.

 

[El Sidd]

Khan sahab ka langar Khanna main pait free main buarta ha without working.

payt to bhar jaega per niyyat kese bharegi? sabko kothi banani hai

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

It is nowhere near Hindko/Pahari.
Better to stay quite than show your Kiite prejudices.
People trying to speak punjabi and tripping triggers me real bad

this isn't Punjabi this is pahaari/Kashmiri ......

 

[masterchief_mirza]

women around him and his relatives were busy in their usual Star Plus scheming/plotting

Brilliant. "Star Plus" scheming.