An admirable post. My responses - not comments, that sounds too judgemental - interleaved below:
I think Oscar wanted to dissipate a lot of cloudy thinking going around, and coalesce opinion around two poles - do we want Indians on the board or not? Not international participation, as you have argued; specifically Indian. It is only India with whom Pakistan, and Pakistani members of this forum, have serious problems; it is only for an Indian, therefore, that a Pakistani temper starts getting white-hot; only in discussions with Indians, where Pakistanis are all Muslim, and Indians are for the overwhelming part not Muslim, do tempers flare up, and mutual disdain for each others' faith system crops up and takes an increasingly strident tone.
While we think these issues through
From the Indian point of view, there are actually two groups; one group b.
The above isn't the issue that arose with the recent events. The issue is being FAIR across the board. Let me explain in the few key points below
1) The member who committed the offense holds the title of "Think Tank"
--> Yes he may have become infuriated with trolls who were instigating but he took things far beyond an acceptable level with what he said...unbecoming of his title of TT. That is no way to handle it. If the trolls are being offensive u report them...even if they cross the line and insult ur religion, u do not insult their religion back and get away with it bcuz they did it first. It's simple insulting someone's religion(bcuz it's a sensitive issue) should mean a ban...no ifs or buts.
2) Even more bothersome is the fact that other members have been handed out bans or punished in other ways for far less.
--> This makes ppl even more uneasy bcuz it seems like favoritism. Punishment/bans should be handed out across the board for any violations.
IMO the forum shouldn't be made as per the wishes of Pakistanis...it should remain unbiased and equal for all internationally. Religious insults shouldn't be allowed for ANY religion bcuz other ppl give importance to their religion as much as we Pakistani Muslims do. In case a violation does happen like the one that happened...the member should be banned for a certain duration, his/her hurtful comments must be deleted, and he/she must issue an apology. Mods should use a strike system...three(or some other agreeable number) strikes and u r out(banned permanently).
Also as for a suggestion to curb trolls and improve the quality of the forum...I had this idea linked below
Prestige Points
It sort of makes the forum "democratic" giving the members of this forum to sort of "vote" on each post based on its quality. With this members can accumulate or lose prestige points.
@Nilgiri @Joe Shearer
Your two citations are immeasurably depressing. I have to leave the forum and bring myself to some better state. I had never thought that he was capable of vulgarity.
কি করলি রে তুই, আমাদের সবার নাক কাইটা ফেলাইলি।