I have just changed my opinion on this issue.. I am now of the view that women should be left on their own to deal with their inherent problems. I always tried to educate women about the dangers of feminism, but now I have realized that all the efforts are just futile.
In our society, every man and woman has made up his/ her mind on this issue. With such articles, we can't change the nature of women.. Good women are there in our society, who like to live their life according to their Lord's wishes.. Good men are also there who also act on the commands of their Lord (SWT).
Then there are bad women, and bad men.. in our society, and in western culture.. They have already made up their minds.. You can't change them...
Many feminists (even Muslims) joke about Quran and Sunnah, and give us examples of the west. Same west which until 200 years back allowed its men to sell their wives for 6 pennies.. Same west that one time had a discussion on deciding whether women have souls, and if they do, whether this soul is human or an animal.. At that time as well, Quran and Sunnah gave rights to women, whether they are assuming mother's role, a wife's role, or a daughter's role.. The same west may go back to their old discussion (one recent example is:
Putin's decriminalization of domestic violence), but my lovely Islam will remain the same in shaa Allah till judgment day.
So, when English laws were allowing (till 1805) husbands to legally sell their wives for as cheap as 6 pennies, my Islam was ordering me to respect women:
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As mothers:
And We have enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his parents - al-Ahqaaf
And your Lord has decreed that you wor`ship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour.
And lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say: ‘My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young’ - al-Isra’
A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “O Messenger of Allaah, who is most deserving of my good company?” He said: “Your mother.” He said: “Then who?” He said: “Your mother.” He said: “Then who?” He said: “Your mother.” He said: “Then who?” He said: “Then your father.”
Al-Bukhaari (5971) and Muslim (2548)
As wives
and live with them honourably - al-Nisa’
And they (women) have rights similar (to those of their husbands) over them to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allaah is All-Mighty, All-Wise - al-Baqarah
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well.”
al-Bukhaari, 331; Muslim, 1468
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.
al-Tirmidhi, 3895
As daughters
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever takes care of two girls until they reach adulthood, he and I will come like this on the Day of Resurrection,” and he held his fingers together.
Muslim, 2631
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Whoever has three daughters and is patient towards them, and feeds them, gives them to drink and clothes them from his riches, they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection.
Ibn e Majaah..
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Now if women want to adopt something from west, which, until quite recently, didn't even consider women humans, and we don't know until when they will keep loving feminism, I ask everyone of us to leave the Pakistani women on their own.. Just think about your mothers, wives, daughters and sisters and no one else.. Try to give good Islamic education in addition to conventional to your daughters and your sisters, and keep reminding your wives about their rights and your rights in Islam.. and leave others on their own.. Pray to Allah that our families are saved from this fitnah.. which is the biggest fitnah before Al Dajjal.. and leave other women on their own.. because what I have experienced is that in the process, these women and feminist men start making some derogatory remarks about Quran and Sunnah, and call it a 1400 years old system which is not in sync with the current era.. This makes them worthy of the worst punishment from Allah, which we (as their Islamic brothers) don't want at all.. The more we discuss this topic, the more stubborn they become and the more they joke about Islamic teachings.. and I don't want anyone of us to go through the punishments for such remarks..
So we can only keep praying for all our sisters in Islam, nothing else.. But if they want to wear bikinis and get raped by the vultures, let them do it and bear the consequences themselves..
I have promised myself, if I ever see a women in improper western dressing being subjected to harassment, I will just keep my eyes closed, and move on.. But if I see women in proper decent dresses being harassed by men, I will try to kill those bastard men..