Touching story of Pak war widow's trip to India

[halupridol]

It shows his big heartedness. Love does not have to be exclusive to be real.

''True love in this differs from gold and clay,
That to divide is not to take away.''

What would the second huband expect anyway? That the woman should stop loving her first husband, whom she did not divorce or run away from, but died fighting on behalf of the country? Love is not an engine that can be started and stopped at convenience. He could choose not to talk about her ex and ask her not to, and maybe pretendd that it never happened, but it is far more honourable to simply accept the reality and still be in love. It shows how strong he is, not how weak. A weak man would slap her for ever mentioning her previous husband, because he would be consumed by jealousy, and would try to impose his will on her by force. But a man who is beyond such negative emotions, and accepts her for what she is, is a strong man.

kya baat,,,,,,kya baat.....
wiase hi article ne senti kiya,,,,,,,,uspe aap bhi.....
btw happy b'day!!

 

[slapshot]

Very touchy and sad...

This is the sad human side of war, war is just young men dying.....

Heard this story few years back. I think I saw her on TV though I think she was being selfish. I may sound silly but it doesn't sounds fair to me that you marry some one else and then keep showing love/affection and how you feel sad about husband you lost. It doesn't seems justice to her present husband. Why do he need to live and suffer through the sadness ?. She should have let go of the past and adopt new life with new husband and be happy.

 

[Jaanbaz]

i liked the whole article , it was moving , except this

"I got remarried but told my second husband that I was still in love with Alam. My husband was a good man. He said if Alam returns, he would be the first one to hand me over to him. Even in my second husband's home, there were photos of Alam," she says."

As a guy i cannot wrap around my head what was going inside second husband's mind and how weak personality he was that even after so many years of marriage his wife could not get closure and used to keep Alams Pic inside their house . And he married her even after knowing that she would leave him as soon as first husband came . Obviously he wouldn't have came back but still ...

Maybe i am very young or very stupid but this is what i think .

The article said something about first love.

 

[Dr. Strangelove]

after a long time something worth reading

 

[Shabaz Sharif]

mate believe me there are millions of people in this side of the border who want the same thing to happen.after all our ancestors used to live together in the same country with peace and harmony,so why can't we do the same now!i for one want this bloody ongoing enmity between our countries over once and for all.i just hope that this dream of mine will become a reality in the near future

My ancestors never lived with your kind.

 

[SaffronSoldier]

My ancestors never lived with your kind.

Typical Punjabi Muslim denial.