We did not claim responsibility. On the contrary, unless you have difficulty in understanding my old-fashioned English, I was disclaiming responsibility. That is the opposite.
I am not sure which pop-psychology book you are reading at the moment, but am sure that you should stop reading it. If you have been reading PDF comments - sometimes, in case this has not yet been brought to your attention, it is edifying to read what others have to say, besides reading what conversations one is personally engaged in - you might have noticed that Indians belong to a huge variety of political opinion, and to many cultural and social points of view. There are people in India who criticise Indian policy, not just the policy of the party in power, but the policy of the nation-state. They continue to walk around free, and have their supporters. So the people of India may by and large support their own country, and its institutions; on the other hand, they may not. It is up to them. This is a free country. There are many critics of what the country does, ranging from the sublime to trolleys who have never read the Panchatantra tale of the jackal that lost its tail.
That is called democracy. It is more complex, more full of difficult choices than being in a military autocracy, and having your nappies changed.
So you may be sure that people brought up in such an atmosphere are not made insecure by it. Observers from a different milieu do feel insecure, as they are not used to thinking for themselves, and come out with formulae for leading their lives such as "we the Pakistani people fully support our armed forces."
It would in fact have been bettor for the country, as well as the army itself, if you had NOT supported the armed forces but had disapproved of it in its stupider movements, and there were many such, all faithfully reported and deemed stupid by Pakistani commentators themselves who wished to be more forthright in their approach than their national policy would have liked them to be.
As an opportunist throughout his life, this humble survivor wishes to salute your honour in your assuming a lemming posture, and the ultimate sacrifice that you propose to make.
Oh, by the way, what did you say were your favourite flowers?