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A couple on their honeymoon were about to get into bed at their hotel when a masked burglar broke in. He drew a chalk circle on the floor, beckoned to the husband and said, “Stand there in that circle. If you step out of it, I shall shoot you through the head!”
While the husband stood inside the circle bolt upright, the burglar took everything he could lay his hands on, threw it all into a sack and was about to get away when he saw once again the pretty bride covered in nothing more than a sheet. He called out to her, turned on the radio, made her dance with him, hugged her, kissed her and would have gone farther hadn’t she valiantly fought him off.
When the burglar finally took off, the woman turned to her husband and yelled, “What kind of man are you that you stood in the middle of that circle doing nothing while I was almost raped.
“It isn’t true I did nothing,” the husband protested, “I defied him. Each time he had his back turned towards me, I stuck my foot outside the circle..!”
I’m sure the parents of that bridegroom must have been proud of herself for bringing up a mouse of a son who knew how to only take care of himself. Talking about mice: According to an ancient Indian fable a mouse was in constant distress because of its fear of the cat. A magician took pity on it and asked the mouse, “What do you want to become?”
“A cat,” said the mouse. So a cat the mouse became. But then it became afraid of the dog. So the magician turned it into a dog. Then it began to fear the panther, and into a panther it was changed.
But the panther feared the lion, and lion the hunter and the magician dutifully changed it into all of these, but it was still afraid.
At this point the magician gave up. He turned it into a mouse again saying, “Nothing I do for you is going to help, because you have the heart of a mouse..!” Most of us ‘taking care of ourselves’ people, have hearts of mice. I watched once as actor after actor turned hostile in court when asked to testify against a gangster who had tried to extort money from them. Even with all their fame and fortune, they were mice inside, except one pretty actress, named Priety Zinta.
I wonder what her mother and father say when they wish her good bye? I’m sure it isn’t, ‘take care of yourself.’ I’m sure it is, ‘Take courage!’
It’s courage we need to wish for each other, it’s courage we need to bless our children with. Not ‘taking care,’ but taking courage to stand tall and face the world, fight bullies and Hitler type monsters and win, win, win! Take courage..!
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Really do you bully hear :-).
Off the topic most of us are the victims of bullying and it can have side effects makes you think you are isolated in some cases and the bullying person gets away with it mostly :(

No, not so much here. But in real life. I can be quite intimidating what I have been told. By friends and family and foes alike.
 
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I can be quite intimidating what I have been told. By friends and family and foes alike.
u made a shell and alter ego. Thats running away scared from a problem rather than facing it like a man.

No. It means I am strong enough to hit back. And protect myself and those around me who cannot.
lol, thats what u think but inside you are weak.
 
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u made a shell and alter ego. Thats running away scared from a problem rather than facing it like a man.

There is nothing strong about being bullied.

Only the weak get bullied.

Those who say that bullies are weak, cowards, etc. are the ones who get sand kicked in their face.

Real life does not work like in comics. Just saying. You either hit first, and put the guy down permanently, or you keep getting hit.
 
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There is nothing strong about being bullied.

Only the weak get bullied.

Those who say that bullies are weak, cowards, etc. are the ones who get sand kicked in their face.

Real life does not work like in comics. Just saying. You either hit first, and put the guy down permanently, or you keep getting hit.

Unless i got you wrong, u said that you became a bully yourself too?
 
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Ok. This doesn't seem to be leading anywhere.
This is not just for you.

This is for everyone out there who lets an external negativity affects him and he becomes something which he is not because he is a weak person who cannot accept reality and fight it and not let it affect him. People find it easy to make a shell and create an alter ego and become something different, just like you did. You were not a bully but you became a Bully to counter bullying. Would anyone become a criminal to fight criminal? would anyone become a murderer to fight murder? This is what weak people do. Your alter ego of being a bully will always keep you confused in life.

It is said in bully dealing never to bully back. You can hit a Bully kid when you are a kid, but will u go on bullying back to everyone in your life who bullies you? is that the only way you learnt to stand up to bullying? Well, thats what you are doing.

Its up to you, do what you want but try and get to know how to deal with issues in life without becoming the issue yourself.
 
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This is not just for you.

This is for everyone out there who lets an external negativity affects him and he becomes something which he is not because he is a weak person who cannot accept reality and fight it and not let it affect him. People find it easy to make a shell and create an alter ego and become something different, just like you did. You were not a bully but you became a Bully to counter bullying. Would anyone become a criminal to fight criminal? would anyone become a murderer to fight murder? This is what weak people do. Your alter ego of being a bully will always keep you confused in life.

It is said in bully dealing never to bully back. You can hit a Bully kid when you are a kid, but will u go on bullying back to everyone in your life who bullies you? is that the only way you learnt to stand up to bullying? Well, thats what you are doing.

Its up to you, do what you want but try and get to know how to deal with issues in life without becoming the issue yourself.

I think either you've misunderstood or we're talking past each other.

I started by saying that I am wired in such a way that I simply do not like bullies. I mean most people do not like bullies right?

But where I differ is that unlike most people in me it does not remain limited to dislike. In me it generates a slow rage. That is slow to come to a boil. But when it does, then something snaps. And then there is hell to pay. Literally hell ....

I learned this side of me when I myself was a child. I was never a weak kid, coz I've always been big. But I was "different" to most other kids. Which was picked upon by some bullies, bigger kids mainly. One among them my own cousin (first cousin ... we are good friends now).

I would also like to tell you that I have never bullied or hit someone who is weaker than me. The way I am built, I enjoy being outnumbered. Being the under dog. Fighting against popular (and populous) odds. And believe me, in school, I have had some epic fights. Movie style. Surrounded by a ring of boys. LOL

So you will never see me going with the flow. With the herd of bhed bakri. I wil always be the lone wolf.

Cheers.
 
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. In me it generates a slow rage. That is slow to come to a boil. But when it does, then something snaps. And then there is hell to pay.
This is the problem i was anticipating and you spoke yourself about it.

You have lost great attributes like self control and patience, both necessary for a healthy mind.
 
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