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Rhonda Cornum - Perspective of an American Prisoner of War
When people started talking about Jessica Lynch, everyone knows she is one of the soldier from the 507th Convoy that was captured during the Iraq War back in 2003. I was at that war at that same time, albeit a different section of the country. But I was there
Not many people ever heard of Brigadier General Rhonda Cornum, even thought Female POW usually garner the spotlight of media attention, Major Cornum, which was her rank back then was a shy flight surgeon whom was captured by Saddam's man 12 years before Jessica Lynch set foot in Iraq. Which was shot down while trying to rescue a downed F-16 Pilot which got shot down at the spot earlier.
Although one should also noted, that Female POW were not limited to both Iraq war, the earliest instance of Female POW goes way back to Joan of Arc (Which was captured by the Brits) to Allies captured some German Women for helping out on AA post. Most likely back when the punishment being dealt with Women were the same as men and back when the rules of war does not matter much whether or not is the PW is a women. Another problem being media was not as free as now, most media are censored during war before Korean war, the true extend of treatment to PW (Male or Female) were not as easy to show then now
So, what it's like to be a Prisoner of War? This article, I would try to use my own experience in SERE and actual Prison to try to bring you some light into the object. And by the end of the article, I will also quote the word written by Rhonda Cornum herself in both her book and seminar to try to give you an insight of being a Female POW.
The state of mind of a POW
Prison, no matter how you see it, is a depressing place. It does not matter if you are in a prison serving time or a Prisoner of War. The same does applies no matter how you ended up in the prison.
The first thing they teach you in SERE is that your "Guard" will try to dehumanize you, bad things gets a lot easier to do when you are just a number. Dehumanization will usually goes with ways to break you down both physically and mentally.
For a POW, the first thing usually come to your mind is how to keep the spirit up. Being in confinement mean you have plenty of time to do absolutely nothing, beside the expecting of some beating that are certainly going to happens, there are absolutely nothing you can look forward to. So the first task is to find something you can count on. So that it will keep your mind occupied.
Contrary to many believe, this is not a good time to think about families, the more you think about them, usually would only make your situation worse. What you want is to try and find something that repeats and something that will help you out passing time.
During Vietnam war, some POW was locked in the infamous "Hanoi Hilton" survive by counting the days and hours from the church bell near the Prison Camp. That's one thing to make you preoccupied and the other thing is to let you know how long you have been there. The first reaction to imprisonment is when you lose track on the time, you lost your hope with it. Simply, you will think you were there forever.
Another way to pass the time is to try and communicate with other POW, talking in your cell usually attract a handsome fine in a form of beating, but to know that you are not there alone is virtually the most important thing you need with your imprisonment. Tapping have long been use as a way to communicate between fellow prisoner since Korea. Another way is to sing. That is if you don't mind the beating that usually come with.
Never Lost Hope
During Operation Gothic Serpent, when CWO Mike Durant was captured by the Somalia militia, the 160SOAR send out a bird to circle around the city and keep blaring out "We won't leave you behind" over the microphone. Later CWO Durant would credit this as instrumental to his survival of 11 days as a POW.
Hope is a funny thing, when you look at it in a Prisoner standpoint. Hope can be a double edged sword. It's great to have, but it can also turn into your greatest enemy. When you were imprisoned. Hope is what keep you alive, but at the same time, you keep thinking you will lose hope any given day and when that happened, then it's game over.
And the guards knows that, one thing they are trained for is to try and break you down, by either killing your hope, or worse, pop you up and set you up for a fall. The guard will try to break you down. And one way I personally find very effective is to not break your will directly, it's hurts more if I, as a guard try to break the will of your friends. As I know for a fact, you depend on him, and he depends on you, and once I take out this "Support Network", then you know, you're next.
The problem is, you can only prepare yourselves and there are pretty much nothing you can do if your friend breaks. But then they don't call "Hope" for nothing, you and anyone of the Prisoner have to believe that, it's always stronger if the lot stay together. And well, that's what hope actually is.
The Code
Yes, I know, this is kind of like a cliché, but the code do exist, as a soldier, you always live by the code, and it would not be any different even if you were captured.
The code is the core value of being a Soldier, it will help you and guide you through your imprisonment. It would technically provide you with a moral stand point and also a sense of belonging behind the enemy line. Something you could follow
The Uniformed Code of Conduct for member of the United States Armed Forces was as follow
I. I am an American, fighting in the forces which guard my country and our way of life. I am prepared to give my life in their defense.
II. I will never surrender of my own free will. If in command, I will never surrender the members of my command while they still have the means to resist.
III. If I am captured I will continue to resist by all means available. I will make every effort to escape and aid others to escape. I will accept neither parole nor special favors from the enemy.
IV. If I become a prisoner of war, I will keep faith with my fellow prisoners. I will give no information or take part in any action which might be harmful to my comrades. If I am senior, I will take command. If not, I will obey the lawful orders of those appointed over me and will back them up in every way.
V. When questioned, should I become a prisoner of war, I am required to give name, rank, service number and date of birth. I will evade answering further questions to the utmost of my ability. I will make no oral or written statements disloyal to my country and its allies or harmful to their cause
VI. I will never forget that I am an American, fighting for freedom, responsible for my actions, and dedicated to the principles which made my country free. I will trust in my God and in the United States of America.
Gender Issue and POW
Whenever female POW were capture, most people would have the word "Sexual Assault" in mind. The inconvenience truth is, there are NO gender issue with POW, they all suffer the same (What make you think Male POW weren't Sexually Assaulted?)
The risk are the same, male and female, in fact, if you ask any former Female POW, they would think male usually have it worse than female, well, even the enemy do have people that soft on Women, and according to BG Cornum, sexual assault is not on the top of her worry list, according to her, in her own word. Being raped is an uncomfortable experience, they are unpleasant, but being rape would not kill you, nor will it make you spill the secret your are holding, hence this is not top of her concern.
Problem with Female POW facing is that they were usually be treated as the weakest link within a group of POW. Men tend to have a mind to protect women, which is imprint in the basic psychology, hence it would be a lot easier to break the men down if the captor show to them that they failed in this basic rule.
Another problem associated with female POW would be the need to adjust their live in captivity, same as any female prisoner in any prison, a woman life can be significant altered if some basic hygienic product and/or birth control product were not available during captivity. Problem range from biological rhythm could be altered to pregnancy.
Missing Man Table - Honoring the POW
There are this table in our officer mess, it was the first table in the mess, so it was highly visible even when you are outside the officer mess. This table are always empty and no one would sit in it, nor would there ever be any food on it.
It was quite some time until I realize that particular table is the missing man table. The table, have it origin from honoring and acknowledging service member that went missing in Vietnam were now more than just a ceremony, it represent the core value of being a POW, the loneliness, hardship and the suffering, today, each base have their own ritual on their own missing man table.
Table Ceremony Script - Read during modern military remembrance events paying honors to POW/MIA. Generally the table is being set while the script is read.
For any US service member who were held captive by the enemy in any amount of time, they are eligible to wear the Prisoner of War medal. Throughout US history, only 5 POW medal were awarded to women for their POW experience. Those 5 are
When people started talking about Jessica Lynch, everyone knows she is one of the soldier from the 507th Convoy that was captured during the Iraq War back in 2003. I was at that war at that same time, albeit a different section of the country. But I was there
Not many people ever heard of Brigadier General Rhonda Cornum, even thought Female POW usually garner the spotlight of media attention, Major Cornum, which was her rank back then was a shy flight surgeon whom was captured by Saddam's man 12 years before Jessica Lynch set foot in Iraq. Which was shot down while trying to rescue a downed F-16 Pilot which got shot down at the spot earlier.
Although one should also noted, that Female POW were not limited to both Iraq war, the earliest instance of Female POW goes way back to Joan of Arc (Which was captured by the Brits) to Allies captured some German Women for helping out on AA post. Most likely back when the punishment being dealt with Women were the same as men and back when the rules of war does not matter much whether or not is the PW is a women. Another problem being media was not as free as now, most media are censored during war before Korean war, the true extend of treatment to PW (Male or Female) were not as easy to show then now
So, what it's like to be a Prisoner of War? This article, I would try to use my own experience in SERE and actual Prison to try to bring you some light into the object. And by the end of the article, I will also quote the word written by Rhonda Cornum herself in both her book and seminar to try to give you an insight of being a Female POW.
The state of mind of a POW
Prison, no matter how you see it, is a depressing place. It does not matter if you are in a prison serving time or a Prisoner of War. The same does applies no matter how you ended up in the prison.
The first thing they teach you in SERE is that your "Guard" will try to dehumanize you, bad things gets a lot easier to do when you are just a number. Dehumanization will usually goes with ways to break you down both physically and mentally.
For a POW, the first thing usually come to your mind is how to keep the spirit up. Being in confinement mean you have plenty of time to do absolutely nothing, beside the expecting of some beating that are certainly going to happens, there are absolutely nothing you can look forward to. So the first task is to find something you can count on. So that it will keep your mind occupied.
Contrary to many believe, this is not a good time to think about families, the more you think about them, usually would only make your situation worse. What you want is to try and find something that repeats and something that will help you out passing time.
During Vietnam war, some POW was locked in the infamous "Hanoi Hilton" survive by counting the days and hours from the church bell near the Prison Camp. That's one thing to make you preoccupied and the other thing is to let you know how long you have been there. The first reaction to imprisonment is when you lose track on the time, you lost your hope with it. Simply, you will think you were there forever.
Another way to pass the time is to try and communicate with other POW, talking in your cell usually attract a handsome fine in a form of beating, but to know that you are not there alone is virtually the most important thing you need with your imprisonment. Tapping have long been use as a way to communicate between fellow prisoner since Korea. Another way is to sing. That is if you don't mind the beating that usually come with.
Never Lost Hope
During Operation Gothic Serpent, when CWO Mike Durant was captured by the Somalia militia, the 160SOAR send out a bird to circle around the city and keep blaring out "We won't leave you behind" over the microphone. Later CWO Durant would credit this as instrumental to his survival of 11 days as a POW.
Hope is a funny thing, when you look at it in a Prisoner standpoint. Hope can be a double edged sword. It's great to have, but it can also turn into your greatest enemy. When you were imprisoned. Hope is what keep you alive, but at the same time, you keep thinking you will lose hope any given day and when that happened, then it's game over.
And the guards knows that, one thing they are trained for is to try and break you down, by either killing your hope, or worse, pop you up and set you up for a fall. The guard will try to break you down. And one way I personally find very effective is to not break your will directly, it's hurts more if I, as a guard try to break the will of your friends. As I know for a fact, you depend on him, and he depends on you, and once I take out this "Support Network", then you know, you're next.
The problem is, you can only prepare yourselves and there are pretty much nothing you can do if your friend breaks. But then they don't call "Hope" for nothing, you and anyone of the Prisoner have to believe that, it's always stronger if the lot stay together. And well, that's what hope actually is.
The Code
Yes, I know, this is kind of like a cliché, but the code do exist, as a soldier, you always live by the code, and it would not be any different even if you were captured.
The code is the core value of being a Soldier, it will help you and guide you through your imprisonment. It would technically provide you with a moral stand point and also a sense of belonging behind the enemy line. Something you could follow
The Uniformed Code of Conduct for member of the United States Armed Forces was as follow
I. I am an American, fighting in the forces which guard my country and our way of life. I am prepared to give my life in their defense.
II. I will never surrender of my own free will. If in command, I will never surrender the members of my command while they still have the means to resist.
III. If I am captured I will continue to resist by all means available. I will make every effort to escape and aid others to escape. I will accept neither parole nor special favors from the enemy.
IV. If I become a prisoner of war, I will keep faith with my fellow prisoners. I will give no information or take part in any action which might be harmful to my comrades. If I am senior, I will take command. If not, I will obey the lawful orders of those appointed over me and will back them up in every way.
V. When questioned, should I become a prisoner of war, I am required to give name, rank, service number and date of birth. I will evade answering further questions to the utmost of my ability. I will make no oral or written statements disloyal to my country and its allies or harmful to their cause
VI. I will never forget that I am an American, fighting for freedom, responsible for my actions, and dedicated to the principles which made my country free. I will trust in my God and in the United States of America.
Gender Issue and POW
Whenever female POW were capture, most people would have the word "Sexual Assault" in mind. The inconvenience truth is, there are NO gender issue with POW, they all suffer the same (What make you think Male POW weren't Sexually Assaulted?)
The risk are the same, male and female, in fact, if you ask any former Female POW, they would think male usually have it worse than female, well, even the enemy do have people that soft on Women, and according to BG Cornum, sexual assault is not on the top of her worry list, according to her, in her own word. Being raped is an uncomfortable experience, they are unpleasant, but being rape would not kill you, nor will it make you spill the secret your are holding, hence this is not top of her concern.
Problem with Female POW facing is that they were usually be treated as the weakest link within a group of POW. Men tend to have a mind to protect women, which is imprint in the basic psychology, hence it would be a lot easier to break the men down if the captor show to them that they failed in this basic rule.
Another problem associated with female POW would be the need to adjust their live in captivity, same as any female prisoner in any prison, a woman life can be significant altered if some basic hygienic product and/or birth control product were not available during captivity. Problem range from biological rhythm could be altered to pregnancy.
Missing Man Table - Honoring the POW
There are this table in our officer mess, it was the first table in the mess, so it was highly visible even when you are outside the officer mess. This table are always empty and no one would sit in it, nor would there ever be any food on it.
It was quite some time until I realize that particular table is the missing man table. The table, have it origin from honoring and acknowledging service member that went missing in Vietnam were now more than just a ceremony, it represent the core value of being a POW, the loneliness, hardship and the suffering, today, each base have their own ritual on their own missing man table.
Table Ceremony Script - Read during modern military remembrance events paying honors to POW/MIA. Generally the table is being set while the script is read.
- The table that stands before you is a place of honor. In setting this table, we acknowledge those missing from our celebration tonight. And we remember them. (ring bell)
- The table is small, and set for one -- Symbolizing the vulnerability of a lone prisoner against his captors. Remember! (ring bell)
- The tablecloth is white -- Symbolizing purity of intention in responding to the nation's call to arms. Remember! (ring bell)
- The chair is empty, for they are not here. Remember! (ring bell)
- The wine glass is inverted -- They cannot toast with us this night. Remember! (ring bell)
- The slices of lemon -- Reminding us of their bitter suffering. Remember! (ring bell)
- The grains of salt -- Representing the countless tears of the families. Remember! (ring bell)
- The single red rose -- Reminding us of loved ones who keep the faith awaiting their return. Remember! (ring bell)
- The burning candle and yellow ribbon -- Symbolizing everlasting hope of a reunion with the missing. Remember! (ring bell)
- Remember! -- All who have served alongside them; we who have donned the same proud uniform, being sworn to the same faith and allegiance -- We will never forget their sacrifice. Remember! (ring bell)
- Remember! -- Until the day they return home, or find eternal peace, we will remember. (ring bell)
For any US service member who were held captive by the enemy in any amount of time, they are eligible to wear the Prisoner of War medal. Throughout US history, only 5 POW medal were awarded to women for their POW experience. Those 5 are
- Spc. Melissa Rathbun-Nealy - January 31, 1991
- Maj. Rhonda Cornum - February 27, 1991
- Pfc. Lori Piestewa - MIA March 23, 2003 KIA March 23, 2003
- Pfc Jessica Lynch - March 23, 2003
- Spc Shoshana Johnson - March 23, 2003