Your not wrong, but I just dont understand all the "Bangal-Hindustan bhai bhai" talk when this is how they regard you
There is no bhai bhai talk anywhere, this is all propaganda. The reason this propaganda is so effective is the sheer volume of money that has been invested to indoctrinate the uneducated and less clue-full cadres. AL keeps plenty of percentage from govt. contracts and by extorting business folks - some of it is used to drive this propaganda.
It is not that AL is that India-friendly, but they need (and aim) to be
Pakistan unfriendly. The narrative is that Pakistan was behind the killing of her father and whole family, and while that event may have been tragic, that vendetta has now been brought into the national stage, trumpeted back and forth for the exclusive alibi of keeping Hasina Gaddi-Nashin, which a lot of folks do not agree with.
Going back to that time prior to that horrific event in the mid 70s, I heard from my elders that the financial irregularities and mixing of personal and state agendas had reached such a level (crores wasted on personal property while the poor lay dying and banks looted at gunpoint by Sheikh Jamal and Sheikh Kamal, Mujib's two boys) that it became unbearable to even the most sane and reasonable neutral observer.
There was talk from the family itself of forming a Mujib dynasty - which was the reason for the killing of the whole family by the disgruntled army commanders. It mirrored the events in India at that time with the killing of Indira Gandhi and her family dynasty in different ways, though in a different manner.
It was sad to see that even after a horrific event like this, there was no reaction or protest from the general populace, which explained a lot of things. Things have a way of correcting themselves in South Asian leadership no matter how egregious they become. No doubt Hasina and Son have kept that in mind and placated the armed forces well, giving them a hefty share of the loot, so they keep quiet.
Hasina's Sister and niece are also active in AL, though in a much more understated manner nowadays.