What's it like as a Pakistani living in New Jersey? Any famous Pakistani restaurants in the areas that you know off? Reason why i am asking is because i'll be visiting this summer with some friends as we defo's want to go down to Six Flags while doing some shopping up in NY.
Well, in NJ/NY, the Pakistani/Indian cuisines pretty much go side by side. By that, what I mean is that where you have Indian restaurants, there is a good chance you will find Pakistani restaurants close to it. Indian food consists of vegetarian food (dosas and stuff), while Pakistani food has meat with it. Pakistanis & Indians get along pretty well here, & assimilate a lot with one another.
Anyways, the best places for Pakistani food in the tri-state area (NY, NJ, CT) in my opinion are:
1. Jackson Heights in Queens, NY (amazing Pakistani food selection there)
2. 29th Street & Lexington Ave in Manhattan, NY (Lahori restaurants)
3. Edison, NJ (this is full of Indian & Pakistani restaurants)
4. New Haven, CT
I believe there are good Pakistani restaurants in Jersey City, NJ as well; but I've never been to those.
There is a very good website called:
zabihah.com - your guide to halal eating
Type in your location of where you are in America, and it will give you the names of all the Halal restaurants within 10 miles. If you are particular about Halal & Zabihah Food like I am, this is a great website, as it tells you which restaurants are definitely Halal & Zabihah, no contentious ones.
Btw, are you staying in New York State, or New York City? Big difference between the two. Because for Six Flags, you would either have to go to New Jersey or Lake George/Buffalo, NY; which are far from New York City. Lake George/Buffalo are far from New York City, they are in upstate NY.
Life is decent here, not terribly exciting if you don't drink & go out partying. It's a good, solid place to have a good professional life, not because there are more job opportunities here, but because of the culture & society: no pressure of marriage etc. You can solely focus on your career. It doesn't have the "ronaq & craziness/life" of Pakistan, sometimes life is pretty stale. But it's pretty stable. This country is really cultureless, it has no culture. But it's embracing to all. It's a great country if you want to start up a business, it's great for entrepreneurship. It's a young country made up of immigrants. It's a country designed for the young, older people aren't revered in the same manner as they are in the South Asian culture, especially the Pakistani culture. You will see a lot of Asians (Chinese/Koreans/Japanese, as well as Indians) & Latino people (Mexicans) here.
And no, the myth about racism in America is for the most part false. If you are a person that likes assimilation & acclimatizing in other societies & is tolerant to other cultures, & respects their viewpoints, no one will be racist against you. I've read Namaz in front of my white roommate for years. Whenever I used to go to his home, his mother made sure she didn't make food with any meat for me.