Words or wisdom there. I don't know about other cultures, but in some parts of Pakistani society people don't give the woman responsbility for the finances of the household, the person who earns the money controls how it is spent, - which makes feminist arguements hold value.
Regardless of wether you earn more or less, your wife should be given the money in her hand so she can balance the budget of the household. She should be given that shared responsbility, so she does not feel inferior, having to put her hand out to you.
My sisters work, my wife is re-training to return to the world of work in a new career, My wife worked before we got married. so it is not that i do not encourage women to have their own money or financial freedom. However we must be careful that we don't sacrifice family for finance.
I advice any couple who can afford to;
- ensure you have your evening meal together as a family
- ensure you have 1 day a week together as a family
- ensure your children, especially teenage children are not left alone whilst you work.