You are newcomer to Pakistan, take your time. You would soon realize that things related to Afghanistan are of very tertiary importance, there are bigger things that need to be sorted out in Pakistan.
For you afghans might be those mommy daddy type who you saw in canada, whose stomachs are filled with burgers, who insulted you. But for me Afghans are those poor hardworking refugees that i see on daily basis. I simply cant hate an entire community whether they are afghans or indians, you should'nt tie your patriotism with hating indians or afghans. I used to do so when i was young and immature, but i have realized that it is stupid.
I neither hate the Indians nor the Afghans. I am vary of them. If you will support Afghanistan over Pakistan people may insult it to attack you or get angry at Afghanistan for no reason-for this I apologize to @
Sher Malang but he should admit those Afghan nationals are saying very rude things about Pakistan and disrespect our country severely. You should also stop backing him because one of the reasons I dropped the term Muhajir as an identity was because of the support for Altaf's partition speech. You have not seen how scathingly I attack MQM supporters. Hate is a strong term but as I said still maintaining loyalty to my family someone who calls my family's struggle for Pakistan a mistake is someone I can barely respect.
In this I cannot forgive someone. I was being harsh on you as you were better than some people there so I am saying this more calmly without jesting or mocking in the middle though in Naswar corner I have that right.
Also you do not know our history. I told you about how we suspect Pashtun links and even gave you evidence of Mughals marrying Pashtuns while I have told you before Aurungzeb awarded us land in Oudh and from barabanki when we came to lucknow we were awarded land by the governor too upon his order. So now you even know the princess's tale largely and the hypothesis that goes behind it. However you do not know what happened to a lot of us back there. In this I would be totally justified to hate India rather than Afghanistan with which on the family level at least I have no link. The link I have is on a personal level as I have adopted Pashtun identity and they believe I have no right to do so and brainwash my countrymen like you whose job is to be useful citizens.
If you are angry at e-afghans and want to take revenge from them on this forum , then drop it. You are contradicting your own message of your book "badal , the thirst for vengeance", the way i see it, you are obsessed with badal from me and afghans/afghanistan. I have noted that You dont forget and forgive those, who goes against your views...you keep "keena" in your heart...why
I am highly emotional and get enraged very quickly. In that I am a born Pashtun. From childhood, when I spoke urdu it seemed I was speaking like a Pathan and some people made fun and said tumhey urdu wurdu aati nahi hai. Hence there are a number of things that solidified in my mind the past links. Perhaps I have a quick temper too. In any case you did not apologize for insulting my family not once but twice second time with a bunch of Indians so I will not either... furthermore this defense of Afghanistan annoys me so I cannot guarantee or assure you of any support if you are going to defend them.
As far as Badal is concerned it will be an explanation of how Badal as a concept was breaking down in Pashtun areas very very slowly. But the war on terror and atrocities committed have given new vigor to it. The only way to stop the cycle is to stop taking revenge. There are many discussions on badal in the book but not all of them discuss it as a negative light. Though of course in modern day there should be an institution that ensures badal rather than an individual. In old days badal made us Pashtuns strong. I was trying to explain this to you but you got angry. Pakistan must institutionalize Pashtun culture and make it a part of the fabric.
? I would give you example, you were frequently quoting taimi khan, then stop doing it when he refused your info on waziristan , said some thing like "then correct your book", i feel he is no more in your good books because of very small disagreement.
Is this a joke? I feel like making a joke at this one of many scandalous allegations aimed to create discord but I will not. Taimi Khan, I corrected in the reply. You can't keep going everywhere to create fights. Taimi Khan is a brother. Also I called him to places but he refused to be part of the discussion. So I refused to tag him any further. Also most Pashtuns do feel I am a little confused. I haven't yet dropped links with family (Ansaris and fathers side) so they don't understand either or most don't take ethnicity so seriously.
Also about anything you say in a debate it will be countered. You have not met me. People can't speak when I am around. I just give figures and facts and they have nothing before it. I memorize all this stuff. There is no arguing with me. You can disagree but you can't face me in debate. It is best if you remember this. I can be an asset for Pashtuns though you fail to see it but an Afghan sympathizer like you attacking my views and being stuck on my background-with your intolerance towards Jinnah and my people you can turn me into one of the worst opponents. It is your choice whether a so-called Pashtun nationalist will use my potential or he will deny it. I can see in your attitudes you how you guys lost Hazara division. Daily fights in Hazara university between Pashtuns and Hindkowans now. Hazaras deeply respected Pashtuns and even called themselves that.