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Infanticide is on the rise in Pakistan.
by Mariya Karimjee @M_Karimjee January 14, 2014 4:30AM ET
Aid groups say little is being done to stop the killing of newborns among Pakistan'€™s poorest

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Pakistani volunteers take the corpses of two infants from the cold storage of a private charity's morgue in Karachi during the burial service
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KARACHI, Pakistan — Three days after she gave birth, Zaitoun says, her husband killed the child, their first, because she was a girl.

The infant's fate wasn't a surprise to Zaitoun, 26, who moved to Karachi, Pakistan's largest city, from the rural northwest three years ago. Zaitoun (who asked that her last name not be used) has a round face and thick brown hair that she coils into a bun. Her marriage was arranged, she says, and her husband found her a job working as a nanny for a family in one of Karachi's wealthy neighborhoods, where he works as a doorkeeper.

When Zaitoun realized she was pregnant, she never spoke of it to her husband, knowing money was tight and that having a baby would likely mean she would lose her job. Her in-laws, whom Zaitoun did tell of her pregnancy, advised her to pray that it wouldn't be a girl. Two days after her daughter was born, Zaitoun says, she woke up to find the baby gone. That afternoon, when her husband came home for lunch, she asked him what had happened. "I took care of it," he said.

A few days later, she says she saw an ambulance crew pick up a tiny corpse from a trash dump outside her apartment building. In the six months she'd been living in Haryana Colony, a squatter settlement where some of Karachi's poorest families live, Zaitoun saw three other dead babies removed the same way, she says.

As Pakistan becomes more urbanized, Karachi's population has grown exponentially. Most of the migrants who move from villages to the city in search of better economic opportunities end up living in densely packed, illegal housing settlements like Haryana Colony. The residents here straddle the poverty line, have limited access to education and are often uninformed about birth-control options. Increasingly, they are turning to infanticide — killing a child within a year of birth — aid groups say.

In South Asia, killing children is nothing new, and girls are particularly vulnerable. Parents do it to help feed their sons, who are more highly valued in Pakistani society. But the number of children killed has risen steadily over the last five years, welfare organizations in Karachi say. Edhi Foundation, Pakistan's largest welfare agency, says the number of dead babies its ambulances pick up has increased by almost 20 percent each year since 2010.

"The price of bread is rising, more immigrants are moving into Karachi, and job security is nonexistent in the country," says an Edhi official, Anwar Kazmi. While the number of corpses the foundation has found nationwide is startling, Kazmi adds, it does not begin to convey the full scope of the problem; it does not include babies killed in rural areas, for instance, or those secretly buried by whoever killed them.

Other organizations, such as Chhipa Welfare Association and the Aman Foundation, report similar increases, a trend they say may intensify as the cost of living in Karachi continues to rise.

But Kazmi says money is only one reason for the country's high infanticide rate. "Many more are killed because they are born out of wedlock," he says.

In Pakistan's socially conservative society, illegitimate children are referred to as "harami," an Arabic word that means "forbidden under Islam" — an admission, Kazmi says, that the parents have sinned.

"If the baby is a boy, an aunt or grandparent may pretend the child is theirs, and the boy could survive," he explains. "But in Pakistan, girls are considered bad fortune, and for this reason, many of the children killed are girls."

The government has failed to provide jobs for a majority of the population, the state of education is abysmal, and law and order in the country is almost nonexistent.
Ramzan Chhipa

founder of the Chhipa Welfare Association

Three streets down from Zaitoun's apartment, Maryam sits with her 17-year-old daughter, Asma, in the one-room apartment they share with four others. (Maryam declined to give her last name, while Asma asked that her name be changed.) A year ago, Asma gave birth to a child out of wedlock. A few minutes after the birth, Maryam suffocated the baby with a pillow, the two acknowledge. They then waited 10 minutes to be sure the baby was really dead. That night, Maryam doused the corpse in kerosene and left it on a trash heap that was already ablaze, while Asma waited at home. Asma, quietly fiddling with her long, thick braid as her mother tells the story, says she never even learned the gender of her newborn.

Maryam considered making Asma get an abortion, she says, but decided against it. Abortions are legal only in limited circumstances in Pakistan and are typically carried out by untrained practitioners in makeshift clinics. Maryam says she has heard horror stories from women who've undergone the procedure and was worried that something could go wrong and that her daughter could die or lose the ability to bear children. According to the Guttmacher Institute, a global nonprofit that studies reproductive health, about 200,000 women are hospitalized in Pakistan each year for complications due to illegal abortions.

Asma and Maryam did not previously tell anyone about the birth, and Maryam says she feels no regret, reasoning that she saved not only her daughter but her grandchild from a life of misery and pain. In December, Asma got married in an arranged marriage that was planned three years ago. She doesn't intend to tell her husband, who was not involved in her first pregnancy, and hopes he never learns the truth.

For a while, when she was pregnant, Asma says, she would sometimes go to one of the safe havens Edhi Foundation has set up to encourage mothers to drop off unwanted infants rather than kill them. The organization created 400 such sites, but the program has had limited success. Just 18 babies were dropped off at sites in Karachi in 2013, while Edhi says it buried more than 1,300 babies last year.

There are a variety of reasons for the lack of response. The program earned the wrath of religious leaders, who say that it encourages promiscuity and immorality. Also, in Karachi the sites are not discreet. Most are located on major thoroughfares in heavily populated parts of the city. Some parents worry that if they attempt to drop off an unwanted infant, they will be accosted by onlookers who disapprove of their decision. Edhi says it takes in the babies without asking any questions, but there aren't any safe-haven laws to protect parents from prosecution for child abandonment. Perhaps most vexing of all, parents aren't leaving their newborns in Edhi's care, Kazmi says, because a child seen as illegitimate in the eyes of God is the embodiment of the parents' sin. Asma, for example, says she is grateful that her child only lived for a few short minutes; this way, perhaps God will forgive her.

Representatives from Chhipa Welfare Association blame the Pakistani government for the rising numbers of infanticides.

"The government has failed to provide jobs for a majority of the population, the state of education is abysmal, and law and order in the country is almost nonexistent," says Ramzan Chhipa, the organization's founder and leader. The association has set up similar safe-haven sites across Karachi and also retrieves corpses from garbage dumps.

However, both Kazmi and Chhipa say that until the plight of these newborns is highlighted by local media outlets and taken seriously by the police, the situation isn't likely to change. However, Karachi's police force, often accused of being poorly trained, corrupt and lacking political will, is unlikely to spend its limited resources on finding the killers of infants.

I have never heard of someone coming into the station and saying that they know someone who killed a harami child.
Nisar Ahmed

police officer in Karachi

Nisar Ahmed, the police officer in charge of investigating crime in the Karachi West district, where Haryana Colony is located, said that in the past three years, the city's police force has never investigated anyone for infanticide. No one, he says, has ever reported such a crime.

"I have never heard of someone coming into the station and saying that they know someone who killed a harami child," Ahmed says. Even if someone was arrested, he or she would likely slip through the cracks of the Pakistani legal system. Ahmed says that he couldn't imagine someone going to trial for the crime.

Earlier this year, Rubeena, another Haryana Colony resident, reported the killing of an infant near her home, she says, but the police never investigated. The officer she spoke to asked her whether she had physically witnessed the incident. When she said she hadn't, he didn't open an investigation, though Rubeena said the baby had clear rope burns around her snapped neck.

One small step forward has come from Pakistan's religious council, a group of leading clerics. After news outlets reported the gang rape of 5-year-old twins who had been abandoned by their parents, many called for stricter adherence to Pakistan's existing child-protection laws. The public outrage spurred the council to designate a day, Sept. 20, 2013, for recognizing girls' value, and imams across the country were encouraged to use their Friday sermons to praise daughters. Some critics say, however, that this should be part of a wider campaign to change the idea that boys are more valuable than girls.

Muhammad Saleem, an Edhi ambulance driver, said worshippers at his mosque spent three hours talking about the women in the Quran who were valued and loved by both the Prophet and Allah. Then, the next day, he was dispatched to pick up an abandoned baby.

Though it was hardly the first time he had to pick up a baby from a trash heap, Saleem says, it was the first time in 12 years as an ambulance driver that he found a baby still alive. She was covered in burns from the trash fire a sanitation worker had presumably lit and died on the way to the hospital.

Moved by the fate of that little girl, Saleem insisted on taking the infant's body from Edhi's morgue to a cemetery to give her a proper burial. That was in September. Since then, says Saleem, he has already picked up another dead baby.

Infanticide is on the rise in Pakistan | Al Jazeera America
 
These basterds should be shot for killing an innocent child & others for socially stigmatizing the birth of a female child (do they forget our Prophet (PBUH) 's line continued through his daughter whom he dearly loved) & those children who are born out of wedlock !
 
That is so sad to read. A nation both needs men and women. What are you going to do if the next generation are only males?
 
These basterds should be shot for killing an innocent child & others for socially stigmatizing the birth of a female child (do they forget our Prophet (PBUH) 's line continued through his daughter whom he dearly loved) & those children who are born out of wedlock !

Most of us here are from generally well-off families. It's difficult for us to understand what these people go through.
I've personally seen an acquaintance consider the same. I was initially disgusted with him just as you are.

But when I was explained of his situation, I couldn't help but sympathize. An outside observer cannot even begin to understand the despair and the level of desperation that leads someone to do something like this. Fortunately, my acquaintance did not go through with it. His sister talk him out of it. His beautiful daughter is now over a year old, and is always there to keep her father cheerfully happy.

Additionally, there're no family planning facilities available for the poor. The medical procedures are either too risky or too expensive for them. Without support from family members, a lot of these people simply run out of options.
 
If female birth is no acceptable for them , where they comes out from ? their father womb ? ? why cant they think that its the women who give them birth also whom they want to kill today :hitwall:
 
Most of us here are from generally well-off families. It's difficult for us to understand what these people go through.
I've personally seen an acquaintance consider the same. I was initially disgusted with him just as you are.

But when I was explained of his situation, I couldn't help but sympathize. An outside observer cannot even begin to understand the despair and the level of desperation that leads someone to do something like this. Fortunately, my acquaintance did not go through with it. His sister talk him out of it. His beautiful daughter is now over a year old, and is always there to keep her father cheerfully happy.

Additionally, there're no family planning facilities available for the poor. The medical procedures are either too risky or too expensive for them. Without support from family members, a lot of these people simply run out of options.

A pagan Meccan would give a similarly twisted raison detre on why he took an innocent daughter's life by burying her alive because the society wouldn't accept here; the bottom line is as the Scripture so eloquently puts it 'to take a (innocent) human life is as if you've killed the whole of humanity......' !

Nothing....not economic hardships nor social compulsions could justify what they did !

These animals deserve not our sympathy but a bullet in the head !
 
A pagan Meccan would give a similarly twisted raison detre on why he took an innocent daughter's life by burying her alive because the society wouldn't accept here; the bottom line is as the Scripture so eloquently puts it 'to take a (innocent) human life is as if you've killed the whole of humanity......' !

Nothing....not economic hardships nor social compulsions could justify what they did !

These animals deserve not our sympathy but a bullet in the head !

Yeah, just as you'd give your reasons for justifying innocents being killed in war

Here's your recent response to a 12 years being killed by the US army:

That is most unfortunate & at times unavoidable

Cost of Indian Diplomatic Victory | Page 5


So according to you now, children killed in a fruitless war are a-ok, but those killed by desperate people who cannot afford in a child in an unfair society deserve a bullet to the head. Where doesn't your 'bottom line' apply here?

And keep in mind that I'm not justifying the killing, just providing a perspective from those directly affected by society and their causes for compulsion.
 
Really sometimes i become highly sceptical about the validity of such news by a foreign channel specially posted by an endian.
I live here and i never met a family who even see their women and daughters as inferior.
 
Yeah, just as you'd give your reasons for justifying innocents being killed in war

Here's your recent response to a 12 years being killed by the US army:



Cost of Indian Diplomatic Victory | Page 5


So according to you now, children killed in a fruitless war are a-ok, but those killed by desperate people who cannot afford in a child in an unfair society deserve a bullet to the head. Where doesn't your 'bottom line' apply here?

And keep in mind that I'm not justifying the killing, just providing a perspective from those directly affected by society and their causes for compulsion.

I did not justify killing of that kid I simply related an incident...an extremely unfortunate incident which because of the nature of counter-terrorism becomes, at times, unavoidable - Kill or be Killed !

That is markedly different than suffocating your own kid & their putting the corpse to fire or throwing it at a garbage collection point only to be eaten by dogs !

There can be no compulsion to kill your own flesh & blood like that; if you can't afford to feed them then send them over to the Edhi Homes where they actually do care for them or a myriad other such philanthropic organizations throughout Pakistan !
 
That is markedly different than suffocating your own kid & their putting the corpse to fire or throwing it at a garbage collection point only to be eaten by dogs !

So now we've conveniently moved from the sanctity of human life argument to the nature of people willing to kill their own?

There can be no compulsion to kill your own flesh & blood like that; if you can't afford to feed them then send them over to the Edhi Homes where they actually do care for them or a myriad other such philanthropic organizations throughout Pakistan !

I never knew about Edhi Homes up until now. How would you expect the poor man sans an internet connection to know? That's what I meant by the lack of support from our society.
 
So now we've conveniently moved from the sanctity of human life argument to the nature of people willing to kill their own?

How does killing your own sanctify human life ?

How does saving your own skin from a would-be suicide bomber & committing collateral damage in the process amount to 'murder' ?

I never knew about Edhi Homes up until now. How would you expect the poor man sans an internet connection to know? That's what I meant by the lack of support from our society.

A poor man sans an internet connection does, I presume, posses the faculty of mind to know that the possibility of failing & the child dying due to starvation or malnutrition remains a possibility nonetheless whereas suffocating your own flesh & blood before throwing the corpse to the dogs is as certain as death gets - Nothing can justify that !
 
How does killing your own sanctify human life ?

Your initial argument invoked sanctity of life, which I countered by pointing out your own stance on the killing the 12-year old. Once again, you're presuming that I'm justifying infanticide. I am not. If we wish to solve the problem, we cannot ignore its causes and focus on punishment alone. Sentencing parents to death will not stop the killings, they will simply force them to hide the evidence better.

How does saving your own skin from a would-be suicide bomber & committing collateral damage in the process amount to 'murder' ?

You occupy a country, you create the mess, you turned that kid's playground into a battlefield - that makes you responsible for it. If I force myself into your house, sit in the kitchen with a gun watching your every move - will I be justified in shooting you if I felt threatened by you picking a knife to cut vegetables?
 
Your initial argument invoked sanctity of life, which I countered by pointing out your own stance on the killing the 12-year old. Once again, you're presuming that I'm justifying infanticide. I am not. If we wish to solve the problem, we cannot ignore its causes and focus on punishment alone. Sentencing parents to death will not stop the killings, they will simply force them to hide the evidence better.

My initial argument did not make the sanctity of life an open-ended statement otherwise I wouldn't be calling for these child murderers to be shot in the head whilst talking about the sanctity of life without any qualification of that term whatsoever !

Furthermore I do agree that the Society is at fault for not solving the problem nor am I advocating focusing on the punishment alone; it goes without saying that you can't solve this problem without Institutional building at a fundamental level !

In my view the State is responsible most of all to those of its citizens who cannot fend for themselves - these children !

At the same time the State must ensure a minimum standard of living for all !

But be that as it maybe - One cannot condone these heinous acts by explaining away poverty as an excuse; if someone in Somalia who hasn't eaten in some days with some of his own family members dying of hunger were to tell me that he saved his child from the agony of a slow & painful death by killing her in her sleep I would understand it even if I would despise the act still but a man who isn't dying of poverty can't even spare half a mouthful of food for his child is just sick !

What is more is the way in which these children born out of wedlock are treated - Nothing...no social stigma can justify killing them like that !


You occupy a country, you create the mess, you turned that kid's playground into a battlefield - that makes you responsible for it. If I force myself into your house, sit in the kitchen with a gun watching your every move - will I be justified in shooting you if I felt threatened by you picking a knife to cut vegetables?

You as in the soldier under question or you as in the State ?

Should a soldier out there in the field be held accountable for the actions of Politicians or Generals & pay for their policies with his life so that a measure of equity is obtained ?

That he refuses to shoot a would-be suicide bomber because someone in Pentagon or elsewhere decided on posting him there in that situation ?
 
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