High rates of Divorce in Pak society and esp in Military class

[Pakistani Fighter]

True but his point is that men in our society don't look at women as beyond anything other than baby making machines.

Babies should be made with mutual consent. I agree

We must stop comparing to west. They have rights there. Women in Pakistan don't have rights. What feminism is trying to achieve in west is different from wha

We dont want rights of West. We want them according to Islam

 

[313ghazi]

Bhai bache sirf Mard nahi maangta

Ji, susral bi mangtay hai, mohale wali aunties be roz enquiry kartiya hai.

Children are a gift from Allah, it is natural to want children, but we all know of some families where there is one every year or 18 months, and at the same time the girl is expected to cook, clean for her husband and his family.

It is sunnah to breast feed a child until they are 2 years old, many people don't even wait for that.

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

Ji, susral bi mangtay hai, mohale wali aunties be roz enquiry kartiya hai.

Children are a gift from Allah, it is natural to want children, but we all know of some families where there is one every year or 18 months, and at the same time the girl is expected to cook, clean for her husband and his family.

It is sunnah to breast feed a child until they are 2 years old, many people don't even wait for that.

Wives bhi bache maangte hai bhai

 

[Salahuddin Ayyubi]

Feminists are not the only problem. For long time, women didn't have a voice to make themselves known. They were told to always compromise. Told by their fathers , by their mothers, by the society that it's the woman's job to compromise and adjust. The man was never told to do that.

This is why marriages are dissolving and breaking apart because now women are, in a sense, realising and rising up, whereas men are still in a state of macho, wadera mentality of I'm always right and that thinking of the man compromises even once, then he's no longer the man of the house.

The funny thing is all of you who are shitting on this issue are men. You're complaining you can't "control" your women. Well brothers, I hate to tell you, bit get your shit together and learn to compromise, adapt or die.

May Allah protect me from having a wife who's a feminist nutjob, but also from the jahil mardangi mentality. That I've seen all around Pakistan.

My grandfather was a religious man, but he was a feminist in the sense that he never favored his sons over his daughters, he always treated the daughters with the same level of freedom as his sons, he never restricted them from sports, never told them they could only go out when he says so, or that they couldn't do something just because they were females.

Hi Everyone @Oscar @Horus @Windjammer @Everyone else

I have recently seen four marriages dissolving and family going into disarray with destruction of family and children. This is all what i have seen in last one year. All have come from our military class and not the high officers class but from relatively decently educated middle grade young officers class. The divorce rates are already astonishingly high in civilian classes and that is all due to the 'faminine revolution' and rules being drafted in legislature giving females unprecedented rights in name of female liberty. Most certainly these females living with young officers are not oppressed, they come from good origins, have good education. They are not like the poor unducated class. This is bizzare and i was distressed with that. In one case, the female not only destroyed the life of the young man but also took away the children and now he has to present himself to court every month to meet his children. In this case, the female's father is a former brigadere and he has concieved several bogus charges against him in addition to divorce ( i say they are bogus, because i know the family for 25 years atleast).

This is all happened when we have embarked on dajjals feminist revolution and started drafting all kind of pro-female legalities and rules changing the balance between male and female as ordained by Allah SWT. I feel shattered to see this. We need to kickstart a campaign to stop this fanatic course of destruction.

 

[Lincoln]

Babies should be made with mutual consent. I agree


We dont want rights of West. We want them according to Islam

We can start by not complaining about the woman's right to divorce then : )

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

We can start by not complaining about the woman's right to divorce then : )

Thats Khula. Woman cannot give divorce straight away

 

[Azadkashmir]

that the diff between oversea paks vs paks from Pakistan. you see these dumb ppl have a comfortable life in Pakistan and dream of western lifestyle which is absolutely bull sh it. they not taste western Islamophobia and racism on their front door, unlike oversea paks.

 

[Valar.]

that the diff between oversea paks vs paks from Pakistan. you see these dumb ppl have a comfortable life in Pakistan and dream of western lifestyle which is absolutely bull sh it. they not taste western Islamophobia and racism on their front door, unlike oversea paks.

You need 2 things:
- Mental help since all your comments are full of whining about oversea paks vs paks from pak
- English language lessons since your English sucks for someone living in Britain.

 

[StormBreaker]

Pati fauj mein patni mauj mein

 

[AZ1]

What you are asking is a also a question of if.

Now, let me ask you to show your dumb hypocrisy and also expose you.

"Now would you let your female family go wearing short clothes, or will you rather kill her to protect her and more importantly your honour."

No one said about killing and neither it certify to kill someone on short cloths. But why you want to go against the rule of ALLAH?

But since you try to defend and saying insecure male here? Tell me will you allow your family female to go out in short cloths?

And regarding you cant control your sight for that

" Apni nazroo mai ajzee paida karo takay tum se tumhari maa aur behneein mehfooz reh sakay".

 

[jamal18]

Many western men hate what is going on in their society. They feel that the destruction of the traditional family is a new cancer. The social balance is tilting unhealthily towards women.

Many are refusing to marry, knowing that 'divorce rape' is around the corner. Flying to a distant country to find a girl who is still traditional and 'feminine'. ..and a few pounds lighter.

 

[Sheikh Rauf]

Aurtain bhagain gi fitnay ko loog apni aurron ko bandhnay per majboor hongay.
Kai aurtain sabab banain gi muwashray ko jahanam raseed kernay mein.
Aurtain jahanam mein ziyada hongi.
Dajal ki fouj mein urtain ziyada hongi.
Sab kaha hova hai deen mein in aurtoon ko nahi samjh to apnay liyay barbadi karain gi.
Allah humain har qisam kay fitnon say mahfooz rakhay(ameen)

 

[Azadkashmir]

You need 2 things:
- Mental help since all your comments are full of whining about oversea paks vs paks from pak
- English language lessons since your English sucks for someone living in Britain.

#Here is an example of pak, who thinks he is better and has an ego problem. No wonder, wives are running off. `

 

[Lincoln]

Thats Khula. Woman cannot give divorce straight away

In Islam, the right of divorce can be given to either, it depends on marriage contract.

 

[Valar.]

#Here is an example of pak, who thinks he is better and has an ego problem. No wonder, wives are running off. `

LOL...

Hey, look at the bright side, atleast you tried punctuation for once. Keep it up